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User Topic: Peopel Talk - Yeah baby!
hopeandchange
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Member # 33287
Target  Posted: 4:10 PM, June 29th (Saturday)

My stbxww and I still live in our home while we settle on the details for the D. She quit wearing her wedding ring on St. Patricks day and I asked her to wear it as long as we shared the same home and until our D was final.

stbxww said No! She was not going to hide that we were getting D. She was not going to wear a symbol signifying her commitment to me forever. Okay, I get it.

So we (she) received an invitation to a friends house for dinner and the friend texted stbxww that either her or her and h&c was fine

So stbxww tells me this, throws up her hand in frustration, and says "well, I guess people talk"

h&c


BH (me, 50)
WS (her, 48)
Divorced!
3 wonderful teens
Heading for Happiness

Posts: 401 | Registered: Sep 2011
fallingquickly
Member
Member # 36599
Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, June 29th (Saturday)

Not too good with realizing consequences of her actions.


Me-BW 50
Him-STBXWH

2 Ddays and lots of TT
divorcing

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken


Posts: 452 | Registered: Aug 2012
tabitha95
Member
Member # 22033
Default  Posted: 4:12 AM, June 30th (Sunday)

If they gossip to you, then they also gossip about you.


BW (me) - 44
DS 13, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3194 | Registered: Dec 2008
Topic Posts: 3