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fireproof
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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, June 30th (Sunday)

This is really hard standing up for yourself. I don't like it and I suck at it.

I want to give up but I know I can't. I would like our child to grow up with values and I just wish I was fully back. I feel like .

At times like this I feel like maybe they are right but I know they are not. I just don't have the words or strength to fight them at their level.

I wish for strength.


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TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 1:04 AM, July 1st (Monday)

Strength to you.

((fireproof))


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 4944 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Crazyville ( A little East of St. Louis)
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:27 AM, July 1st (Monday)

Sending strength and prayers your way.

Hugs too, I found it hard to stand up for myself, but mess with my kids - and my mamabear came out, claws and all.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, July 1st (Monday)

(((fireproof)))

Sending you strength.




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fireproof
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Member # 36126
Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, July 1st (Monday)

Thank you all! I really needed the well wishes tonight!

Posts: 671 | Registered: Jul 2012
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, July 1st (Monday)

((((fireproof))))

strength to you.

And kudos to you for asking for what you need. Good plan!


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 12 DS 9
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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