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abigailadams
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

I met my stbx in Vermont while on vacation in 1999. This summer with all the bills of divorce piling up, when some new friends invited me and DD up to VT for a week I thought it would be a great opportunity to see friends and have an affordable getaway in the country. Oh but the memories. Some places we go remind me of our early days. When we were first in love and happy.

I won't contact him as my rational mind still knows the man he is now will respond in a nasty way but the man I married I would love to see him, to touch him, to talk to him. Oh god I miss that guy. Not the guy I am divorcing but the one I spent all those summers with in Vermont.


Me BS 54
Him WS 51
Married 10 years together 13
DDay October 11, 2012

Posts: 134 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Brooklyn, NY
disgust
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Member # 34200
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

I know what you mean about the memories. I got an email the other day from a hotel we always stayed at down the shore. I thought about all of the good times we had there just the two of us and with our kids. But then I thought that they were good times for me. I'm sure that on, at least, one of those stays he was in one A or the other. So they must of not been such good times for him.

I intend to go back there some day and make new memories.


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