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abigailadams
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

If you get child support, does your s/d agreement specify when you get it? Is there something that is standard?


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Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

Our state guideline standard is the first of every month and it is specified in the agreement.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

The draft I'm working on specifies the first of the month.


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HopeImOverIt
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

Mine also specifies that the payment is "late" after the 5th of the month, and that if he's late more than 2 times I can take the matter to my state's child support enforcement agency.

Interestingly HIS lawyer put that in. MY lawyer told me I can take it to the agency at any time, so that clause doesn't really require me to wait until he's late 3 times. Still, I liked the wording of it.


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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

Mine's supposed to be the first of the month. Of course today is the second and no check.


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Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

Mine specifically says on the first day of the month.


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peridot
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

Mine says on the first day of the month.


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movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday)

Any way to appeal to support enforcement? Mine is a weekly payment garnished via his employer.


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whyohwhyohwhy
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday)

Mine (child support and alimony) is every two weeks.

It's garnished by the state through his employer and direct deposited in my bank account.

I can't tell you how much easier it is than sweating it out every month.


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lostmommy
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday)

Mine is garnished every week from his paycheck. Best thing I ever did.

I love child support Tuesdays!


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