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wildbananas
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Content  Posted: 5:28 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

My busy season at work is from July to mid-October. This year is going to be especially bad because I'm the only IT person and I'm on call 24/7. It's been pretty hairy so far... I've been working long hours around the clock.

But... a guy I've known for about ten years sent me a dozen roses, which I received on the same day we started production at work. They're even more awesome because he knows I like opals and the name of the color has "opal" in it and they're all blue, green, yellow and purple.

He knows I'm super busy for the next 100ish days but has officially asked me out for when production is over. He said he's patient and I'm worth the wait.

I know a lot can happen between now and then and it very well may not happen but yeah... it still made me smile.


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cayc
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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

What a lovely gesture! And the understanding is nice too!


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foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

Enjoy the feeling


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NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

That is so lovely!


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Posts: 15193 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
persevere
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

Awwwww wb, that's really cool.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

So sweet.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

Oooooh, that's fun.

That's such a specific gesture... I think that if you want something to happen, the door seems pretty open.

"Squee" either way!


It is better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. -Russian Proverb

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Sad in AZ
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Wink  Posted: 6:20 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

Nice!


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

Classy way to ask! Niiiiice.


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Married 4, together 7yrs total
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want_to_forgive
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

Love this! What a sweet gesturre. :)


M 11 years
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willowiris
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

Fantastic! You are definitely someone who deserves roses and you ARE worth the wait~!


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

Awww!


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WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

WB,
That is so thoughtful and wonderful of him. Very glad he recognizes the fact that you are certainly worth he wait.

Wolf


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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, July 4th (Thursday)

Awesome


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SBB
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Default  Posted: 5:53 AM, July 5th (Friday)

What a thoughtful and lovely gesture.

I like this one.


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torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, July 5th (Friday)

Didn't think there were any still out there with that kind of class!

You soooo deserve to be treated in this manner. Enjoy it!


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EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

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Speechless101
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, July 5th (Friday)

How thoughtful!


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broken2
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, July 5th (Friday)

Love this! There are still good ones in this world.

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Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 4:45 AM, July 6th (Saturday)

awww that is nice. Hope the wait isn't too long


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BrokenPieces
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

Twinnie, you are so amazing, I am glad someone has stepped up to the plate to show you that. xoxoxoxo


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, July 8th (Monday)

Happy Dancin' over here for you, Nanners.

Woot!

AJ's MOM


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