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User Topic: Divorced now - I think
phillygirl
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Member # 9078
Default  Posted: 5:30 AM, July 5th (Friday)

My waiting period is up. And the final decree is now on the judge's desk to sign. He could have signed it Monday or Tuesday but I'm just waiting to get the official paperwork in my hands.

I feel. Nothing. Except that in hindsight my entire marriage was a giant, painful waste of time.

In boredom yesterday I signed up for Match and paid for 3 months because I had a promo code. After looking thru the profiles for 20 minutes I have buyers remorse. Dating still sucks. I think I may be paranoid, because I swear I can see red flags waving in some people's profiles.

Sigh.


Me - BW
Him - WH
Divorced - 7/2013

Posts: 824 | Registered: Dec 2005
HurtsButImOK
Member
Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 6:19 AM, July 5th (Friday)

I hope this ending is the beginning of something wonderful for you.

I too feel as though my relationship was the longest and biggest mistake of my life. I am however determined to learn from it so as to never make the same mistakes again.

I also registered for OLD but haven't actually looked at any profiles as I am soooo not ready yet. Especially when you read the experiences other SI peeps have


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
dmari
Member
Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, July 5th (Friday)

(((((phillygirl)))))


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2129 | Registered: Oct 2012
Nature_Girl
Member
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, July 5th (Friday)

Party at Phillygirl's house!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9318 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, July 5th (Friday)

((((phillygirl))))


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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