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User Topic: I am in Pergo-tory
Skan
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Funny  Posted: 3:20 PM, July 5th (Friday)

Literally. Well, it''s a wood laminate, but it''s that snap together flooring. We''re redoing the office over the weekend and eventually, will redo our hallway, guest room, and the dining room. Looking good too. Taking a short chips, dip, and soft drink break right now.

I''m amazed at how easily it''s going. Almost like we can read each other''s minds. And how easily we''re working together. Two weeks ago, I had just come back home from leaving for three days after finding his porn stash (ironically, in the same room that we''re redoing). And today, peace, harmony, and chips & dip!

Life can be a funny old thing, can''t it? OK, break over, back to pergo-tory!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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musiclovingmom
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, July 5th (Friday)

Glad things are going well. I was so hopeful for you when you posted about the shredder and this post made me smile.

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unforgivable5
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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, July 5th (Friday)

Good for you Skan. Best place to start rebuilding is from the ground up.


WH
D-day 3/4/13

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Mrs Panda
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Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, July 5th (Friday)

Happy to hear things are better.


Me-41 FWW Him-45BH
M 13years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008 (OM2)
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Confessed to OM 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut

Posts: 1970 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The SouthEast
Searchingforhope
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, July 6th (Saturday)

Skan...That is good to read.

We have Pergo throughout our house. I love it..it's indestructible..A word I hope will describe our M and the M of those who are also in R.

Take care.


Me: BW 51 (didn't have a clue)
Him: FWH 54(extremely remorseful about his stupid midlife crisis)
Married 27 yrs

PA that lasted approx. 2 weeks. OW was a younger but totally screwed up %#@%!

DDay 4-25-12
Reconciling


Posts: 141 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: California
OnAnIsland
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

Glad to hear things are going better and you are clicking. Thinking of you.


D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

I love all the metaphors in this thread .


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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