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ninebark
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Member # 24534
Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, July 6th (Saturday)

Today I put all the anger and crap behind me in the name of DS'happiness. I invited the ex to come to the movies with us today. He is heading out of town tomorrow and wanted to take DS to the movies..the sme movie we want to take him to. So I suggested we all go together..me, bf, ex & DS.

I deserve cookies and wine today.


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, July 6th (Saturday)

I hope you have good time at the movies.

You deserve cookies, wine, and a chocolate lava cake.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 9:48 AM, July 6th (Saturday)]


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nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, July 6th (Saturday)

At a minimum. I think you also deserve a medal and some Xanax. What movie are you seeing? Hope it goes well.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 5:44 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

How did it go?

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ninebark
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Member # 24534
Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

Well we all went to see despicable me 2. It was very pleasant, good coversation and DS got to see his parents act as friends,

My only bone of contention was he was, as far as I understood, supposed to take DS with him after the movie...however he showed up on his motorcycle

He picked him up for supper later though, so that is better than nothing...and I didn't say a thing.

I am proud of myself and even his dorkness, for putting DS first and being able to act as parents ....cookies all around


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

Yay! I'm so glad it went well.

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