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mainlyinpain
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Member # 39134
Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

The VAR conversation to me showed that he was telling her he was interested in sex, something he said that in this encounter they had never alluded to.

She says something and says she was just trying to make him laugh.

He says, "Well I know a better way you can make me laugh and feel better, heh heh"

I say he was referencing sex. He says no not at all not ever.

I ask well, what else could you have been talking about? What else could you have been saying was a better way to make you laugh...heh heh?

He stumbles and says well, I could have been suggesting that she... TICKLE me...actually, with a straight face.

yeah...right, ELMO.


DD 1 - 7/7/2004
DD 2 - 10/31/2011
DD 3 - 4/30/2013(or continuation?)(Yes)
DD 4 - 9/25/2013
DD 5 - 2/15/2014 (found phone from 2009)

Posts: 496 | Registered: Apr 2013
PrincessPeach06
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Member # 39588
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, July 6th (Saturday)


Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 36
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-6
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".


Posts: 299 | Registered: Jun 2013
doesitgetbetter
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Member # 18429
Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

Oh wow, it boggles my mind the lame garbage they come up with to cover their lies. Tickle him? Well, he was telling the truth actually.... he was referring to her tickling his pickle. So he WAS telling the truth, he just didn't finish the sentence.

My H used to always make those kinds of comments to the OW's, they would be alluding to sex, then he would say "hehehe". Like he's a 9 year old boy and can't talk about sex like an adult suddenly. Lame! Whatever.


DDay - Dec '07
Me - BS
Him - FWS
Us - Committed
May 18, 2010 - I forgave him fully!
"Behold, I have refined thee, but not with silver; I have chosen thee in the furnace of affliction." Isaiah 48:10

Posts: 3859 | Registered: Feb 2008
nomistakeaboutit
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Member # 36857
Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

MIP,

You're right. He wants hinting and not very subtly.

T/J...sorry

I noticed in your profile that one of your interests is being happy, but your screen name is MainlyInPain. You also have a H who has cheated on you and is suggesting sex with other women. No happiness on that train. Why don't you divorce his miserable ass?


Me: BH 58.........Her: WW 45
DD: 8..........DS: 5
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................
"It's like a nightmare within a nightmare, which in and of itself is a nightmare!"

Posts: 953 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: U.S.A.
stillhere09
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Member # 24924
Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, July 6th (Saturday)


Oh, MIP!

Unbelievable! This is one for the "Dumb Things the WS Said" thread we had some time ago.

Sometimes I wish we could videotape them and make them watch it later.


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


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