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IrishLass518
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Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, July 8th (Monday)

Soooooo, on July 3rd I finally blocked xWH and OWifetress on FB. They weren't my Friends but Friends with our kids and other family members and I could see the things that they posted in comments. Really, nothing useful and I realize that anything they were saying or alluding too about me or the kids ultimately reflects bad on them and only them. Today I got the notice in the mail that my Bankruptcy was discharged on July 3rd.
Apparently, I knew it was time to move forward emotionally and financially and it happened on the same day.
Now, I am in control of my future and finances and no one can take that away from me unless I allow it.


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1676 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, July 8th (Monday)


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2605 | Registered: Jan 2010
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, July 8th (Monday)


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4847 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
cass
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Member # 24261
Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, July 8th (Monday)


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4960 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
nutmegkitty
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Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, July 9th (Tuesday)

I like your NB part 2!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2568 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Yay!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24434 | Registered: Aug 2011
fraeuken
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Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Yay, all blocked here too. Feels good. Keep moving forward.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1230 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
IrishLass518
Member
Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Thanks guys and gals and it does feel good. I am sooooo excited about my future for ME and my IrishLad
I can now rebuild MY credit and find just the right car, land and home for me and my boy. I get to decide what furniture and decorations. I get to decide when and where we travel. I get to be ME and that is a huge gift to myself. I told another SI er this morning, "Get YOU back first and then decide if you want HIM/HER back." I am finally here, I am back and I like ME


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1676 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
lostmommy
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Member # 33440
Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, July 10th (Wednesday)

Congratulations!!!


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY
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