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brokenfinger
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Frustrated  Posted: 9:12 AM, July 9th (Tuesday)

So, I tried to talk to the shitface on Sunday, about custody of the kids. I don't want to drag it out in court, I figure we are adults, and I just want whatever will make our kids happy.
My DD changed her mind and wants to try 2 weeks on, 2 weeks off. I reluctantly agreed.
But here is the kicker: during the convo he kept bringing up what I walked in on that night, and he has this INSANE NEED to try to explain it to me, and try to show me I was wrong......wtf is with that????
I kept saying, "what's done is done, we aren't discussing this, and BC has no fault divorce, so it doesn't matter anyways"....does he forget that it wasn't just about that night? That he lied to me FOR MONTHS!!!! Seriously...mother fucker must be off his meds.
His bitch was sitting in the van watching us, so I politely told her to mind her own business and flipped her the bird....my bad...well..no..I'm not sorry at all.
He also went on and on about how I insulted her that night....yes...it's all about him...allllllll about him.
I know I broke a rule engaging in talking to him...I honestly didn't think he would go there, funny how they think they can still talk to us they way they did before. I even went so far as to say to him, " um so what, you want me to take you back".....he just sat there.
On good note, custody is settled, and I'm giving him a bbq he cant use, the dvd collection, and a shitty tv, and now assets are settled.

Moving on and moving up!


There is no stronger message, then dirt in your face.

Posts: 49 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
hardtimesinlife
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Keep moving. When you are going through hell keep going. He is trying to rewrite history so he isn't the bad guy. Stick to your guns.


Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)

Posts: 6135 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Florida
brokenfinger
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, July 9th (Tuesday)

I actually had to refrain from laughing, I couldn't believe he was even gonna try it lol


There is no stronger message, then dirt in your face.

Posts: 49 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
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