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Sad in AZ
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Member # 24239
Cool  Posted: 2:10 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20020 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Thanks! I REALLY needed to be reminded of this today!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2146 | Registered: Oct 2012
lieshurt
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Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Amen to that!


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13722 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Somebody say "AMEN"!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1828 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Ha! lieshurt beat me to the punch.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1828 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
lieshurt
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Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Great minds think alike Pass


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13722 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Got that right!!!!


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - R looks possible..

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6358 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
whatdoto
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Member # 28555
Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

You got that right!


"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
hangingontohope7
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Member # 20024
Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

I'm going to keep telling myself this.


Me: BW
DDay #1 Tried R
DDAY #2 Divorcing

Burn everything love then burn the ashes.


Posts: 247 | Registered: Jun 2008
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

The worse day of being divorced is still 100% better than the best day of of living with a POS liar.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20368 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

The worse day of being divorced is still 100% better than the best day of of living with a POS liar.

TRUE!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4610 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Word!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17323 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
torn2bits
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Member # 28376
Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Alleluah!!

Do they have a Hallmark card with that on there so I can send it to WH on our anniversary?

[This message edited by torn2bits at 7:06 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)]


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Abso-fucking-lutely. (had to come up with something original to say)


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5058 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Housefulloflove
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Member # 38458
Default  Posted: 1:05 AM, July 10th (Wednesday)

Amen!


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 4:16 AM, July 10th (Wednesday)

The worse day of being divorced is still 100% better than the best day of of living with a POS liar.

Too true.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5533 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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