SI members in the UK should be made aware of the fact that adultery cannot be given as grounds for divorce if you remained living together for six months or more after finding out! It seems we are punished for doing our best to reconcile if we ultimately find we cannot :(
Me: BW, 30
Him: WH, 33, EA summer 2008, multiple cyber affairs, 3PA summer 2011-summer 2012
Together since 1999, married in 2004
DD1: 9th Aug 2012
DD2: 6th March 2013 end of reconciliation and start of separation
DD3: 29th June 2013
Posts: 110 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: UK
Phoenix1 Member Member # 38928
Posted: 1:32 PM, July 11th (Thursday)
In my state if you remain together for one year after discovery it is deemed to have been "forgiven" and it cannot be used for grounds after that point...BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs, started 1994 - never stopped
3 kids - 22, 20, 17
M Dissolved 10/18/13!!!
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man, ~ Shakespeare
Posts: 614 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of hell's ashes!