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cancuncrushed
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, July 15th (Monday)

H and I were having a discussion about some financial plans, things I considered private. He decided we should contact his parents, and share their thoughts on these matters. I commented that I felt these were private matters, and I didnt care to discuss it with other people. H is 54 yrs old. His response was, They are family. I could never lie to my family .I want to share all my feelings and joy with my family. I could never ever be dishonest with them. I could never hide things from them. I dont like secrets. I want them to know everything about us. I love them..........Yep. It hit the fan. And it was loud. Pointed out every secret and lie he has told me. ANd added everything I had issues with. Every hurt. My opinions. I believe my head may have rotated. He was actually embarrassed when I finished. FOr having said something so stupid.


a trigger yesterday

Posts: 903 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: athome
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, July 15th (Monday)

Good for you! Way to stand on your back feet and burst that self-righteous bubble!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4804 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
RidingHealingRd
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Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, July 15th (Monday)

Their stupidity is Infuriating at times.
I applaud you for not holding back.


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


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