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Ann124
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)

So at the hearing (me on the phone and ... here it comes now officially XWHwas there in person) He must have been scared or a wave of honesty hit him like a ton of bricks but while sworn in admitted to the debt that he started after D filing and claimed 100% of it (I think it was because he knew I might say something and he would be in contempt)

But all is finally Done ...

[This message edited by Ann124 at 4:33 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)]


Posts: 387 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)

Congrats!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9827 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
soveryweary
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Member # 32265
Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)

Ann124, I am so relieved and happy for you.


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 627 | Registered: May 2011
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)

Glad the loan is on record, and I'm happy you are done. :) Congrats!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5526 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
dmari
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Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)

Phew ... that's a relief!! Keep on moving forward!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)

I vote scared.

Congrats!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
chikastuff
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)

Awesome news!!


Me- 32
Happily engaged and moving on

Posts: 382 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: New England
Ann124
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)

Thank you everyone! I felt a huge weight off my shoulders.

Here is the kicker: I need a certified copy of the decree as I went back to my maiden name ... Afterwards I called him about our DS22 and then said, "since you have all this loan money can you go back to the court house and pay for my certified copy that I need"
XWH "Oh sure no problem ... I'll do it first thing in the morning"

All I can do is shake my head!

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Posts: 387 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
peridot
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)

Congrats!!!


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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