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User Topic: Thursday is our first hearing
Coraline
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Member # 36434
Default  Posted: 4:21 AM, July 17th (Wednesday)

It's to set a trial date and for pre-decree relief and temp custody. My attorneys aren't worried, so I guess I shouldn't be. I won't say how I feel, because...you know, my stalkers and all that, but I'll probably be asking for mojo *again* 24 hours from now. The good news is that my attorneys have bitch boots, so really I should be fine.

Edit to add: Haha! I forgot I deleted my OW rant before posting and didn't change the thread title. I don't know how to change the title from my phone. Oops. Oh well, but she is stupid.

[This message edited by Coraline at 4:23 AM, July 17th (Wednesday)]


Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.

Posts: 771 | Registered: Aug 2012
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 5:46 AM, July 17th (Wednesday)

She is stupid.

Trial mojo!!!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13565 | Registered: Jul 2011
Ashland13
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Member # 38378
Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, July 17th (Wednesday)

Best wishes for speedy trial, Coraline.

I have empathy for you on the OW topic and have sometimes renamed "it" to "Stupid Fool."

Don't know if this will be useful for you, but one of my coping mechanisms regarding SF is some reminders to myself: to tell myself that I am on the other side of the fence already and at least have a more clear view of what probably awaits her.

You also know what your WH or STBXH is capable of, too. We are smarter for it, but I'm not always able to remember that when I'm down.

Best wishes for the least possible drama and the best possible outcome.

Go, Lawyers!


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess


Posts: 2134 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
nutmegkitty
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Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, July 17th (Wednesday)

good luck tomorrow!!!!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2568 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

I have been keeping you in my heart and prayers Coraline!! And I will do so even more from now until we hear back from you. I am loving your attorney!! Bitch boots and all!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2117 | Registered: Oct 2012
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

Mojo!!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4553 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
heartbroken_kk
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Member # 22722
Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

~~~~~~~~~~~~>Coraline<~~~~~~~~~~
Positive vibes coming at ya!


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1091 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

Mojo on its way


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4850 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

Good luck tomorrow. Sending mojo.

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