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gma56
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Cool  Posted: 2:58 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

Thought I would share a few with D/S. When you are living in the middle of the battle just a reminder that you will survive the pain of a relationship that has been destroyed and the future is going to be OK. You can have a wonderful life and find a wonderful love in your new beginning . It takes time to work through issues and all the legal hell but.....

We know we can't control them
We can't fix them.
And we have to let go..

Many hugs to all that are in pain today, afraid what the future is going to be, and lonely.
Gma

[This message edited by gma56 at 3:41 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)]


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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whatdoto
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

I'm teary now. Thanks gma, I really need reassurance sometimes.

D sucks.


"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

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Elaine2012
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

Thanks, Gma! I'd like to share this one. I saw this within two weeks of dday it was the perfect message for me that day. I've repeated this so many times when I've struggled with the new reality that is my life.

ETA working in uploading the image!
Success!!

[This message edited by Elaine2012 at 4:12 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)]


Me- 53
WH- 57
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 285 | Registered: Jul 2012
gma56
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

((Whattodo))
D is hell and even worse when infidelity killed the marriage.
There will be a time that it is all over and you start reclaiming your life. Promise.

Elaine: I absolutely love that !!!!


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20368 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

k i cant figure out how to post pics

so i give up

[This message edited by PhoenixRisen at 4:26 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)]


Posts: 475 | Registered: Jun 2012
gma56
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

Do you have photobucket or some other photo host ?


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20368 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

GMA, yes but I was trying to just post a pic already on another site using the <img... code and it just kept showing the code.
no worries.. here is my fav quote

"Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go." - Hermann Hesse


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Elaine2012
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Member # 36099
Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

D is hell and even worse when infidelity killed the marriage.
There will be a time that it is all over and you start reclaiming your life. Promise.

I remind myself that there are so many who have gone before that have found the better life that follows this ugly business. I am hopeful that my NB comes soon!


Me- 53
WH- 57
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 285 | Registered: Jul 2012
persevere
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Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

Inspiration pics are why I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Pinterest. The Baggage Reclaim Pinterest site has some amazing quotes - http://pinterest.com/natalielue/baggage-reclaim//

[This message edited by persevere at 11:20 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)]


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

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