As Im driving to work today I have to pass the place that my WH was getting BJ's by a whore in our car. Then the pick song can on the radio at that moment. ( broke or just bent) we had plans to go to dinner tonight so I told me I wasn't up to going then he call and said why did you have to go that way to work!!! Are you kidding me....oh I guess it's my fault for going that way and not his for pulling it out of his pants!!! I can talk much more!!!
Sorry just venting,!!!
[This message edited by 27yearsnowlost at 10:46 AM, July 18th (Thursday)]
Bw (me) 47
WH (him) 59
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22
Posts: 167 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: nj
1Faith Member Member # 38975
Posted: 12:38 PM, July 18th (Thursday)
I am sorry he was so insensitive.
You have every right to be upset and angry.
Your DDay wasn't that long ago. You had a trigger (understandable) and he needs to be prepared to help you deal with them.
If you're going through hell, keep going. - Winston Churchill
Posts: 767 | Registered: Apr 2013
confused615 Member Member # 30826
Posted: 12:56 PM, July 18th (Thursday)
What an asshole. I hope you asked him why he had to get BJ's from a whore?? You *should be* able to drive down any damn street,alley,interstate,and dirt road in America and not have to have mind movies of your husband getting blown by a whore.
It's not your fault.
M: June 2001
Status: R? I don't know..ask me tomorrow..it changes rapidly.
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
Posts: 6292 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
undonelife Member Member # 38421
Posted: 12:59 PM, July 18th (Thursday)
"What an asshole. I hope you asked him why he had to get BJ's from a whore?? You *should be* able to drive down any damn street,alley,interstate,and dirt road in America and not have to have mind movies of your husband getting blown by a whore.
It's not your fault.
What Confused said. Yes. Its on him.
Me: BS 53 Him: WH 51
M: 28 years - 29 now
DDay 11/25/12 TT 9/9/13
OW:20 yrs younger married co-worker
Kids: 2 teens
Posts: 171 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Dark Hell
thecosmogirl Member Member # 39707
Posted: 9:51 PM, July 18th (Thursday)
I agree with everyone else.
I have to drive by the hotel he took the slut to... "I don't know how we ended up there."...sure, whatever fucktard.....there is no way to not drive by, seriously or I would.
I also have to sit in an office every day where he got blow jobs and had sex with at least one of them....I'm betting both but, whatever...it takes every fiber of my entire being to even open the door....fuck I hate my life right now
Him: doesn't matter anymore...or does it...
Being very, very careful
D-day 14 June 2013
I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!
Posts: 119 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: trying to figure it out