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27yearsnowlost
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Shocked  Posted: 3:21 PM, July 18th (Thursday)

Ok here is my question....my WH meets with a hooker for 2bjs over a month period and was texting her to set up other "date", and he said I miss you..can I see you tomorrow, her reply is sure babe call me in the am.

So why do one tell hired help he misses her....

His IC said he had no meaning behind it but I have been threw a lot of IC and that is a "feeling" word. So what Am I supposed to think....

Any input would help


Bw (me) 47
WH (him) 59
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22

Posts: 167 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: nj
1Faith
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Revenge  Posted: 3:26 PM, July 18th (Thursday)

Did he recently text her this or was this from before you discovered the "meetings"?

He said he missed her to butter her up so she'd meet up with him to give him his BJ. He was lying and manipulating. You will never make sense out of nonsense.

If it was recent and he is still trying to meet up with hookers then kick his ass to the curb.

Hang in there.


"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

Posts: 1149 | Registered: Apr 2013
EvenKeel
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, July 18th (Thursday)

Could of had nothing to do with 'her' and everything to do with getting his urge satisfied.

As 1Faith said, one can drive themselves crazy trying to understand the nonsense.


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


Posts: 2102 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, July 18th (Thursday)

((HUGS)) "I miss you" is a lot nicer way to segue into setting up an appointment than a literal description of what he's wanting. I would say it doesn't mean anything other than I'm a married jackass who's soliciting a hooker. No feelings there. I know I'd feel differently if it were my husband. I'm sorry.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6740 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
27yearsnowlost
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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, July 18th (Thursday)

This texted was the night before d day. I found the texted the next morning. So far he has been remorseful.


Bw (me) 47
WH (him) 59
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22

Posts: 167 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: nj
Topic Posts: 5