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newlysingle
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Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, July 20th (Saturday)

Today is STBX's birthday. The only reason I know that is because I just went on FB and saw photos of my friend's son's birthday party. They happen to share a birthday. I would have never remembered otherwise.

Today I spent a beautiful day at the lake with my BFF from college and our children. We swam, fished, had a bonfire, fireworks , etc. We had a such a great time.

Meanwhile, STBX is in Europe with the whore. He did not call his children nor did they call him. We never thought of him once today. I'm sure he thinks he's having a great time, but I have my children and my BFF. He has the whore and nobody else. He has lost the few friends he had over this.

Just a little reminder to myself of how full my life really is and how good it feels to be detaching from that loser.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 879 | Registered: Mar 2013
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, July 20th (Saturday)

Love your post!! Continue to move forward newlysingle!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2146 | Registered: Oct 2012
newlysingle
Member
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, July 21st (Sunday)

Thanks dmari! I noticed your signature about the Romantic Infidelity. I read that as well and couldn't believe how dead on it was with STBX.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 879 | Registered: Mar 2013
Topic Posts: 3