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redrock
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, July 21st (Sunday)

I just watched a documentary about how young women are now doing this. I can't believe it.

Now women are concerned with having too much - I don't even know how to describe it- too much --flesh?

So lets see hair, skin face, body, boobs and now your labia?

Part of me thinks this is hilarious. Really? That is the next thing we are told what has to look right? Where is it coming from- porn?

And part of me is pissed off. The boys in the doc were obviously douching it up for the camera but is this the attitude of a porn educated generation? Yikes. Thank the lord I grew up when I did.

A labia is too be judged but the saggy ball sack is to be accepted?! wtf?

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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

I have heard that this is a growing trend, especially among young women.

It horrifies and saddens me.


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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

crazy kids


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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

Anyone who hasn't read Brave New World... should.

It's all coming true. The conditioning and grooming of young minds from all the media input is downright scary.

Glad I'm old.

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

Its been popular for awhile now. A few have said they want it because it looks sloppy...I have no idea how it can look sloppy..


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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

It's not like it was all that attractive to start with, right??


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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

Pretty messed up to think that having perfectly formed Georgia Okeefesque labia are going to make your life complete.
I've seen more than my fair share or hoohas and boy parts in my profession an I can say that for certain we are all unique. Why oh why oh why would one want to change that?


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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

Ouch !
I think I'll keep what I have.
I too have seen more than my share of men and women. Why would you want to be like a little girl when you are a woman. It certainly isn't going to enhance sex, that would be the only reason to consider the surgery.


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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

It really is a sad commentary on woman's body issues in our society - we expect (and are often expected) to be picture perfect in every since, to the impossible. This is just carrying it further.

I know this surgery has been popular for a while and it is saddening.


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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

I think this is crazy unless you really have an issue and I guess some women do - like elephant ears hanging out. I would think that would be quite annoying (just the thought of it makes me cringe).

The reason I know about this is cuz the woman who does my facials was talking about it because one of her clients wanted to get it done. I didn't understand what the problem was so I googled it - and yep there are definitely some women who could benefit from this surgery. It took one very quick look and I was like omg -- I will never look again so if you do look -- I've warned you.


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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

I don't understand this either. I would be afraid it would cause nerve damage. Is physical appearance better than sexual enjoyment. I think not. Only one other person is suppose to like how it looks and if they don't something is wrong with them.


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Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

OMG, I don't even know what to say to this... except that while reading this thread, all I pictured was mine (or my perception of it) and if I should run home after work and take a look...


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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

This is the first I've heard of this.

First-world problems


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Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

Another solution to a problem that doesn't exist - thank you mainstream media


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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

There's that and bleaching of the . . . er, other "area' down there so it looks like the porn stars' do. Nice, huh?


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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

Seriously the first time I saw it I was watching a documentary on the porn industry (its a lot more educational and interesting then it sounds) and one of the people mentioned wanting to get it done. She was my age and all I could do was look down (like I could see it through my pants) and think ouch why would you do that!!


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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

First-world problems
exactly! Our society is so fucked up.

And yes, it is all due to P.O.R.N.!

Sadly, our younger generations have grown up on porn. And even those of us parents that have done our best to keep our kids away from it, have failed, because if they didn't see it at their own home, they would see it somewhere else. It's everywhere, and if one owns a computer or smart phone, they have access.

It burns my ass that these kids, young men and women, due to repeated exposure, have been brainwashed into believing that what they see on porn is what is expected of them when having sex. Gang-bangs, facials, swallowing, double penetration, anal, rimming, BDSM, and every imaginable act that was once considered PERVERSION is now 'accepted' because it is depicted in porn.

Our young women believe that they need to be a porn star to keep a man, and I guess these foolish young men think that this is what women want.

I've tried to explain to my DS23 that this is NOT what normal women want, that these silly young women are just doing this stupid shit because they have been brainwashed into thinking that this is the norm because they have seen it in porn.

Parents are failing by not talking to their kids and explaining the dangers of destroying their bodies by participating in these acts.

Hey people NEWS FLASH how much daily anal sex do they think it's going to take before they are are going to be wearing diapers? Not a nice thought is it? Young women, please, PROTECT YOUR BODIES!!!! Young men, RESPECT YOUR PARTNERS BODY!!!!

As far as labiaplasty goes, well, I'm sure there are some situations where the lady bits need to be corrected, but I imagine those situations are few and far between. The labia obsessed women are probably getting their ho ha's waxed continually, and ruining the skin down there.

But, I'd be damned if I would spend hard earned money on my ho ha. If I'm gonna spend money on plastic surgery, I'd get the girls lifted or get a face lift. Only one person sees my ho ha, and he likes it just fine the way it is.


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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

I am somewhat involved in the plastic and cosmetic surgery arena and FYI, there is a surgery for saggy balls. Varicocele surgery is becoming more and more popular. I don't judge and don't read more into it other than some men just don't like saggy balls...especially if the toilet water is cold.


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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

especially if the toilet water is cold.
ewwwwww! Now those must be some seriously saggy balls! Ewwwwww!


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Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

Now see...making fun of the balls are not off limit but....


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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

It burns my ass

T/J... I'm sorry but after the bleaching of the other "area" was mentioned, I just couldn't pass this up.

tee hee hee... so immature


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Default  Posted: 10:36 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

Haha SSM! I think you and I both need as many laughs as we can get.


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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

And for more of your reading pleasure...here is an article on one of your favorite actors getting what is known as ball ironing. It's not just women. hey if it's the Sun it has to be true...right?

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/showbiz/4744029/george-clooney-has-ball-ironing-to-get-rid-of-wrinkles-on-his-testicles.html

[This message edited by asurvivor at 10:53 AM, July 22nd (Monday)]


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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

Why didn't he just get a Nut Bra?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9VpdWOVsM0o


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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

Oh man. I woke up this morning and was laying in bed reading the forums and this thread sent me jumping out of blankeys and running straight to the bathroom to have a look at my Miss Kitty. I have honestly never thought twice about the subject. I always thought mine looked... normal. Not like a porn star, more like something out of a medical book. And when I was looking at it this morning it still looked normal. But I found myself thinking "maybe there is something wrong?" I can only imagine if I was 20 years younger, hearing about it. God I was self conscious enough back then, adding something like this would send me through the roof. Society has high expectation of women these days.


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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

God I was self conscious enough back then, adding something like this would send me through the roof.

Jeez, yeah....


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redrock
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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

I would like to know the number of procedures of dudes getting for their balls tucked compared to the ladies trimmage.

I will go out on the limb and bet that labiaplasty is done in much higher numbers. And that makes me sad that girls today can't just accept who they are even in the vag area.

Now see...making fun of the balls are not off limit but....

I don't mind the ball sack. I was pointing out what I consider to be a double standard.

I will say that a bunch of asshole teenagers talking about how gross 'roast beef' is- pisses me the fuck off. I have a beautiful teenage daughter that has enough to fricken contend with... I WISH there was the same scrutiny/judgement of the boys that dangle. I don't get it and probably never will.

[This message edited by redrock at 3:23 PM, July 22nd (Monday)]


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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

Whoa. Who's the first one who went to her doctor and said "hey can you cut that shit off just because....it's there?". And the doc says " ok how about Thursday?". I'm crossing my legs just sitting here typing!


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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

Redrock...You think boys and men do not have hangups about their dangles. Are you kidding? You don't think they were ever in a locker room and if they didn't size up they are made to feel like shit. You don't think they ever heard the dick size jokes. I could go on but men know what I'm talking about. The only double standard I see around here is the fact that women think that men somehow have it so much easier in life and don't have to live up to - how much money they make...how good they are in bed...can they keep it up...do they have protruding bellies...do they wear the right clothes? Is there face turning to a wrinkled up prune as their hair falls out and yes, do their balls sag and does is their Dick big enough. Shit just read some these forums and you will get the picture.


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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

Oh and one more thing...you think they didn't have a surgery to make Dicks bigger that the line would go around the globe...as stupid as that would be. Hell they sell millions of dollars of bullshit grow it bigger pills now that do nothing.


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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

I will say that a bunch of asshole teenagers talking about how gross 'roast beef' is

Asshole teenagers will be asshole teenagers and have no idea what they're talking about.

"Roast beef" is... umm... delicious.


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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

Sweet fancy moses.. I'm glad I already had lunch today.


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redrock
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

You think boys and men do not have hangups about their dangles

I get that they do.

But they are not making drastic changes to their bodies at younger and younger ages.

If penis enlargement is happening, it is buried deep and I have never heard of it.

It is acceptable and even normalized for girls to get boob jobs. Even as they are still growing in their teens. I have never heard of a guy getting a dick enlargement at for a sweet sixteen gift. I live in what I would call a middle income environment and I would say that it isn't common, but it isn't uncommon to see boobjobs within my daughters sphere of activity in high school. It is obvious it is happening, to the naked eye.

I have never heard of labiaplasty until this weekend. So perhaps boys and men are having work done and it is not talked about.

I can tell you that while I am as likely to poke fun as the next person... that wrinkles, a hairy back and a bald spot don't make my guy one ounce less sexy than he was at 19. His dick isn't what does it for me at all.

If that is something that younger women judge, I don't know. I can say that I really had no frame of reference when I was in the dating pool. Big dick small dick, they all intimidated me...

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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

this thread sent me jumping out of blankeys and running straight to the bathroom to have a look at my Miss Kitty.
ROFLMAO!🙀

You don't think they were ever in a locker room and if they didn't size up they are made to feel like shit.
I honestly didn't realize that guys could be so cruel to each other until I had this discussion a while back with member here. That's what's so great about SI, because we can share these things honestly.

The only double standard I see around here is the fact that women think that men somehow have it so much easier in life
some women maybe...not me, and I think not those of us with adult sons. When we have to watch our young adult sons struggle to try to "man up" and play the "strong, brave role" when we mothers know how difficult it is.


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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

But they are not making drastic changes to their bodies at younger and younger ages.

If penis enlargement is happening, it is buried deep and I have never heard of it.

Haven't you heard of HGH, Steroids etc? 6'5" tall 13 year olds? Sports demands a lot, younger and younger.

The surgical aspect of enlargement isn't available yet. First doc to perfect it becomes a billionaire, guaranteed!!


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redrock
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

HGH, Steroids etc? 6'5" tall 13 year olds? Sports demands a lot, younger and younger.

Specialization at a sport at like 8?! Yep heard of it. Deal with it daily. 3 sport kids competing with kids who do one thing all year, every year from a very young age. Whole new thread.

That pressure, competition is not limited to boys.


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redrock
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

If I have made this a boys vs. girls thing, I am sorry.

My original point is that it is pathetic and sad that there is yet a new and interesting way to be judged in our society as a women.

And along with the new standard there is a surgical solution. Yeah.

And that strikes me as all kinds of wrong.


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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

Sweet fancy moses..

You stole that from NIK!!


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Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

Did anyone else shudder to see this thread next to the one on blenders??

Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

You stole that from NIK!!

No, NiK and I are WONDERTWINS. Our trademarks are interchangeable. She can use "sister mary francis" any time she wants, too. (Ok, I got that from the cab in Who Framed Roger Rabbit, but that's our secret...)


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Default  Posted: 3:46 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

One of the gynecologists I work with was lamenting this new trend recently. She said that more and more of her patients are asking for recommendations for plastic surgeons for labiaplasty. She is so dismayed by it that she will only discourage them, unless of course there is an actual physical anomaly that needs to be corrected. It is a very sad, and definitely related to widespread porn in our society. Fully nude strip clubs are also the norm in my area, and are considered a normal social gathering place for some people, so I'm sure that contributes also.


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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

Mylar, did she say WHY these women want this done? I'm just curious.


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Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
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Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

One of my friends got the "vaginal rejuvenation" thing done.....

I couldn't stop crossing my legs and squeezing them together when she told me about it.

She said she'd do it again and liked the results.......

Told her I couldn't go that in a million years, even if mine fell out or something.....


what did I ever do to deserve this?

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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

"vaginal rejuvenation"

What the hell is that?


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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

hope this isn't too much information......

She said she always felt like she wasn't "tight" enough" and was always self conscious about it etc. I should add that she's got some body issues and is pretty heavy....

So, they did something where they made her v-jay narrower...she started telling me the specifics, but I was too freaked out..,,it involved scissors and scalpels, etitches etc....


what did I ever do to deserve this?

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Him: X, 51 PA SA NPD?
2 kids; DD14, DD8 divorced


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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

This is just another form of body modificaton. I'm very curious if this is something that was started here because it was evolved from something most tortureous and barberic.

Stay with me. In certain countries (parts of Africa/Middle East) there are proceedures which have been in practice for many, many, many years. These practices modify the girl (they start right before puberty and the child has no say in it) in which the clitoris is cut off; so the female receives no pleasure, or the vaginal opening is made, I kid you not, the size of a pencil eraser. The "resizing"procedure is often repeated after marriage, after births of children and practicality whenever her husband requests it so that she's "tighter". And yes, they are ripped open during intercourse and they endure the modification again.

The "lucky" ones get actual sutures while the not so lucky receive no antiseptic or numbing medicine and thorns are used. I promise this is true. Now, bear in mind not all husbands are demanding this of their wives in these countries but there are still enough requesting it in these heavily saturated male-dominated societies that sadly these archaic operations are continuing to be performed.

Somehow this came to our shores and was turned into a fad. One could speculate as to how, but I clearly remember seeing the labiplasty being performed years ago on Dr 90210. There was a doctor on the show which specialized in it. Perhaps he was one of many who brought the practice to the Western world but sold it to *us* as cosmetic and *necessary*.

I mean, look at where tattoos and piercings originated. Now practically everyone (including myself) have them.Not everything can be blamed on porn, I'm sorry it just can't. You see it more in porn because, well, not everyone is walking around naked.

These fads and trends, a lot of times, originate from a much more historic stand point and eventually caught on. Circumcision had its biblical origins for not only hygeine but the law. Now most people get it done on their son cause his dad did and its more aestheiclly pleasing to enough people that it continues to be performed and I'm not knocking it either.

I mean, face lifts. 20 years ago or more, a lot of people would scoff at the very idea of getting it done. However upthread face-lift is okay, vagina trimming bad. People thought the same about boob jobs but nowadays a lot of women even before pregnancy are planning on getting the Olsen Twins lifted and life pumped back into them.

There is nothing wrong, IMHO, if a person wants a boob job, a penis pump, a nut bra, tummy tuck, butt implants, rhinoplasty, etc. Who cares? I mean, really? I'm sure the douchie kids in that doc making cracks were selected specifically because they would say stupid shit on camera. Most teenage boys are happy to just have a vagina in their presence and yes being on camera or around peers they're going to sound stupid and douchie.

If a girl goes to her mom and says, "Hey ma, I wanna get my beef curtains trimmed" the mom's job is to tell her daughter about loving herself, body differences, that whomever loves her won't care if she's tucked in neat and pretty or hanging low. The kid can't go to the doc underage and get it done the parents have that valuable interim to help educate her.


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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

If a girl goes to her mom and says, "Hey ma, I wanna get my beef curtains trimmed" the mom's job is to tell her daughter about loving herself, body differences, that whomever loves her won't care if she's tucked in neat and pretty or hanging low.

I think I just peed my pants. Probably because I haven't had my labiaplasty yet.


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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

Personally, I don't understand it at all.

I think it's a complete waste of money - money I, for one, do not have, nor will I have in the near future. And if I did have it, I'd definitely put it to better use than this.


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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

And you have the most appropriate user name on the whole thread


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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

I've read this thread with interest.
From the viewpoint of necessity vs vanity:
I Googled images of Labiaplasty and, quite frankly, I can understand why some women may choose this surgery, one reason being due to excessive exterior protrusion (I'm thinking in terms of hygiene/sexual pleasure), another reason being congenital.
See article below:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Labiaplasty

....just a thought....


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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

There is nothing wrong, IMHO, if a person wants a boob job, a penis pump, a nut bra, tummy tuck, butt implants, rhinoplasty, etc. Who cares? I mean, really?
it is every individuals right to do whatever the hell they want to do with their own bodies...frankly, I could not give a rats ass what they do. And if there is a medical need for such a surgery, by all means, it most certainly should be corrected.

My concern is that women feel the need to do such things to their bodies for no reason other than to 'look' a certain way that they 'think' they should look. And yes, I believe that need is perpetuated due to their exposure to porn, and the fact that consciously, or subconsciously they think they need to 'compete' with the porn stars in vying for the affections of their men. JMO.


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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

OMG if you're going to image-Google labiaplasty don't do it at work


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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

@TR

PPGA, I get what you're saying, I do. There's still a fair amount of females out there, myself included, who have viewed porn on several different occasions and can tell you matter-of-factly that they'll pass on the fake bake, the lumpy boob jobs, the bleached anal fissures and the "blow outs".


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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

OMG if you're going to image-Google labiaplasty don't do it at work
TR, I would have thought you would have had more sense than that!

And slh,

bleached anal fissures
is that for real? Do people really do that?


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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

^^^^Google it!


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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

PPGA,
Ya might not want to Google a "Harvest Moon"....its not exactly what *we* were brought up learning!


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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

TCD and SLH, my iPad must be a virgin, cuz I googled both those terms and got nothing! Probably for the best.


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Frustrated  Posted: 6:16 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

PPGA, consider yourself lucky!
A harvest moon, if you're curious, is a dirty or dingy brownish-orange tinged butt-hole. That's why there's anal bleaching.

Rectum? Damn near killed em'! BWWAAAAHAHAHAAAA!!!

Eta: accidentally touched the Charlie Brown lookin character when posting.

[This message edited by stilllovinghim at 6:17 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)]


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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

And you have the most appropriate user name on the whole thread

OH MY GOD. You're right! How could I not see this before???

Damn you, random name generator - damn you to hell!

(something told me to go with BaffledWaffle instead)


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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

Yeah, I actually started a thread in F & G about it because I couldn't stop giggling when I saw this thread and your name on the front page.


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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Painpaingoaway, they want it purely for cosmetic reasons - they think it will make them appear more attractive down there. I do think it's sad that a significant number of women are apparently worried about this. (In a perfect world, the only people who would be seeing your labia up close and personal are people you could trust to care enough about you to not be bothered by your labia being on the larger end of normal.)


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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)

My guess is that this thread has 2,000 comments already on the Mod forum ...


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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)

OH MY GOD. You're right! How could I not see this before???


Why ... you need a mirror!


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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Surgery is so painful! I can't imagine how hard it must be to pee for the week after!

I also think it's a waste of money and I am so shocked that people spend the money on it when there are so many other ways to improve oneself that will give you more bang for the buck. No pun intended.

You could probably get half a college degree with that money, a new car, travel around the world. It blows my mind that someone would actually pay good money to resize their labia when a simple turning out the lights will do if you feel that self conscious.

I can definitely be thrifty when it comes to labia.

[This message edited by InnerLight at 9:38 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I can definitely be thrifty when it comes to labia.

I did peek at some of the google image pics, and yes, I do believe there are some situations that DO need surgery, poor things. But for your average everyday labia, damn, I'd be spending that money elsewhere further north. 😉


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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Besides Exposed, I have a close second in the names area. I can tell you that bleaching of the hiny hole is purely cosmetic, and is done primarily by wealthy women.
I can also say that the same set of nerves and tisssue are in the labia as in the rectum, and I know for a fact that most people report a hemmorhoidectomy as the most painful thing they have ever undergone. So I'm thinking I would pass on it just because of the pain level of recovery.


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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I can also say that the same set of nerves and tisssue are in the labia as in the rectum, and I know for a fact that most people report a hemmorhoidectomy as the most painful thing they have ever undergone. So I'm thinking I would pass on it just because of the pain level of recovery.

THIS I did not need to hear a week before my first colonoscopy ever.


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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

TMI---

hemmorhoidectomy as the most painful thing they have ever undergone

TO THE HELL YESSSS!

I had all my kids naturally, surgeries, car accidents, etc, but that one ^^^ is absolutely, positively the most painful thing you can "elect" to do to yourself!

Jennifer- the prep of the colonoscopy is the worse part, just a LOT of toilet time! Afterwards you can just get up and go to MickeyD's!


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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Jennifer, don't sweat it. They don't do anything to your rectum, except use it as a doorway.
The prep is by far that worst of it. Before you start get some A&D ointment, or Desitin to coat and protect so you don't get a super sore bum. You will be nighty night when they slip that scope on in, and it's smaller than your index finger. So no sweat, lots bigger stuff comes out.


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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

also if you have an upper GI and colonoscopy at the same time, make damn sure they do the upper GI first...I know I had to ask them which one was first...I'm still not sure I believe them...


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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

THIS I did not need to hear a week before my first colonoscopy ever.

Jennifer - the prep is the worst part, the procedure is nothing.

They give you this wonderful stuff called 'propafol' - you start counting backwards from 100 and by the time you hit 96 the next thing you know you're waking up and they're all smiling at you (come to think of it, were they supposed to be?? )


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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

OMG

I love you all. You crack me up.

I have A&D (10 years old - left over from diaper days of DS). I have lots of books for the potty time LOL. And the kid is getting shipped off to grandpas so he won't be bored with mommy stuck in the bathroom.

I am having both ends invaded I had an UpperGI scope thingy 6 years ago and I'm overdue for a follow up (Barretts esoph) and I said well hell if you're knocking me out and I have to use a vacation day off work you may as well get it all done at once. To my surprise they said "okeedoke!" (why didn't they do that during my appendectomy when I asked them to take out my gallbladder while they were in there? didn't I have to have that out a few years later???)

I can imagine how bad a labiaplasty feels - nicked a piece once with a razor - last time a razor went near there


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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I knew someone who had a preference for a certain type of labia majora and labia minora which turned out to be similar to a Barbie doll. The way he expressed it would definitely make the women he was with feel insecure and inadequate because what he was looking for was very rare, especially in women past the age of puberty. Made me sick.


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Default  Posted: 4:53 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

I see so many people that are all "zomg shaved vag makes you look pre-pubescent" but the more important change in that region that puberty brings is the shape and coloration of the labia. So, a guy who dislikes pubic hair on women is a git, but he is at least talking about a transitory thing, hair can come or go. But one who dislikes the shape and color of adult labia is just eww.

I understand that there are extreme cases. I saw a thing about a girl who couldn't wear pants because her labia were so long they got all folded up. But that aside, the more real estate someone has down there the more feel good spots they have. This goes back to a very basic problem we have culturally, where we teach girls their first consideration wrt sex should be "What do guys think about how I look?" instead of "What do I think about how I feel?" And then we wonder why people keep having bad hetero sex experiences.

I cannot believe any woman who masturbates would consider labiaplasty unless it was truly a medical concern. I mean I think I have an entirely unremarkable pubic area, but I cannot imagine responding to male criticism of its appearance with anything other than "Well ok, for that I'm not going to let you watch me play with it."


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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

This goes back to a very basic problem we have culturally, where we teach girls their first consideration wrt sex should be "What do guys think about how I look?" instead of "What do I think about how I feel?"
AMEN!


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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

I had to peek at some of the pictures, and I do get why some women with excessive real estate down there would want to get some reduction. In some of the pictured cases they were dealing with something akin to a penis in size and positioning. It can't be comfortable and as much as we'd all ideally want to be comfortable with our natural bodies, I do understand why those extreme cases would make someone feel self conscious. In some of the pics it just looked like normal aging, being a little saggy, nip 'n tuck, that sort of thing. That I don't really get, but it's not my $$ or recovery!

About women shaving their nethers, though - I'm on a masters swim team and most of us are in our 30's and 40's, a few 50's as well, and in the locker room environment I can't help but notice that Brazilian waxing is pretty popular in that age group. And so is natural body aging. I don't think I would ever otherwise have had cause to notice that women's bodies do age "down there" and when completely waxed, the signs of aging are really apparent. I had my own "grab a mirror and look closely" moment after first noticing that in the locker room one day - I had to check to see if I'd lost my youth in that area as well. I had, of course, but it's just much harder to tell if you're not completely waxed, which I'm not.

But it made me think as I was reading this thread that with the popularity of waxing oneself bald down there, and the revelation of the less than youthful profile exposed by that, that an increase in those having surgery to modify what's been exposed does seem to make sense.


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Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Great Post LadyK, I have raised my daughter to think the proper way, and as a result at age 14, she could give 2 shits about dressing like everyone else, and being popular.
I would hope as an adult not only would she have the response you recommend, but also give him a good hard kick in the jimmies.

AS afar as the shaving thing goes, personally I prefer to be smooth, I started when I was having lots of gyno issues, and have pretty much stuck with it for more than 15 years. I like being clean, and keeping the fur away (I am of french/german descent so I'm fairly furry) helps with that. It's not about how it looks for me. Although there are some benefits when it comes to bedroom time.


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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Brazilian waxing is pretty popular in that age group. And so is natural body aging. I don't think I would ever otherwise have had cause to notice that women's bodies do age "down there"

I'm old and I find SI so educational! (I didn't even know Brazilians weren't always people until I joined this place.)

I know about stress incontinence and about the hair from all over the body migrating to one's face with age. But I confess that I didn't know about the visible aging of the parts of one's rude bits that one can see without gymnastic contortions and a hand mirror - other than the aforementioned negative-Tressy effect. Could someone be kind enough to explain, please, what happens? (Or in my case, I presume, has already happened! Without my realizing it. I guess I've been too busy looking at my wrinkled face, bemoaning my suddenly-creaking joints, and so on.)

Seriously. Please tell me more. For example, I wasn't sure what even the 'Barbie' post really meant.

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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I had a really good post to add here but then I read this

but I cannot imagine responding to male criticism of its appearance with anything other than "Well ok, for that I'm not going to let you watch me play with it."

and now I can't think. I guess I'm done on Si for the day and hope no one wonders why I'm sitting alone in the outfield at the little league game tonight rolling in the grass laughing my ass off.


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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

...adding to my list of:

The things I've Learned on SI.


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

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sometimes the best thing you can do for
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