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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

Please send mojo, prayers, whatever you have.

I have Mastitis and will be seeing a surgeon in two days, if it isn't dramatically better. I HATE going under and I HATE being cut.

This is a chronic issue stemming from an autoimmune disorder. I've had the surgery before- about three years ago and I DON'T want to have to do it again. It took me the better part of a year to heal from that. (That's a year of dealing with oozing and dressings and staining everything I have- again!) The pain and recovery time will be far less if it starts to resolve in the next couple of days.

And DD's 14th birthday is on Sat. So, I really don't want to be laid up post-surgery and miss celebrating with her.

Any spare mojo you might have would be greatly appreciated.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

(((tiky)))

Sending mojo.


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

Sending lots of mojo.

I hope it gets better so you don't have to have the surgery.


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knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

I had mastitis once from breast feeding. OUCH is right!

You have been prayed for and will continue to be in my prayers.

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

(((TIKY)))

Mojo mojo mojo


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 2:58 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

(((TIKY)))

Sending mojo your way.


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

Thanks, y'all!

Pain meds are kicking in, so I'm feeling a little better and a little worse. My pain has eased, but my brain seems to have taken a vacation. In the space where it once resided, there's nothing but dizziness. I think I need to nap a little and sleep this off, a bit.


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willow60
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

Lots of mojo, TIKY.

Feel better soon.


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

Feel better soon. That's no fun at all. Are you seeing a general surgeon, if so I would strongly recommend a breast surgeon. I would also ask about negative pressure wound therapy. That's an extremely long time to deal with a wound and dressing changes.

Mojo prayers and healing thoughts headed your way.

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

Mojo on its way


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

Mojo, mojo, MOJO!!!


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

Well, the antibiotics seem to be working- inflammation is down today. My stomach is NOT happy with the antibiotics. I was up all night trying not to barf. It doesn't help that the pain meds make me really dizzy and I hate that, too.

It's a little early to say this, but I'm thinking I won't be having surgery this week. I probably will soon, though, because the problem keeps coming back.

Once I'm off of these meds, I'm going to try turmeric because I've heard a LOT of great things about it and it has helped a lot of people like me. I just can't stomach it right now with these other meds.

Thanks for all of the mojo!! It seems to be working!


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

OK. MAYBE I can avoid surgery this week while we wait and see how much the antibiotics help. I'm still in a bit of pain and the inflammation seems to be at a stand-still. I hope not. Trying to stay away from the pain meds because they make me feel really icky. So do the antibiotics, but I have no choice but to take those.

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:16 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

Have you tried cherry juice too? It's supposed to be a really good anti-inflammatory. Good luck.


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:32 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Try ginger (yogi makes a really nice ginger lemon tea) for the nausea. I drink a few cups of it a day whenever I'm on antibiotics.


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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Mojo!!!


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Cherry juice? I had never heard of using that- or maybe I HAD, but just didn't realize it. My grandmother had Lupus and would always put it in milkshakes (YUM!).

I'm doing better with the nausea. I find that peppermint works really well for me with nausea.


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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Continued healing mojo heading your way.


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