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roughroadahead
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Member # 36060
Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

No, I'm not dating, and not thinking about it. Nevertheless, I met a guy at meetup who seemed nice, normal, employed, educated (PhD in engineering). He was cute enough, too.

Just gave me a boost to know there are nice, normal educated guys out there to talk to. I was able to have a couple of hours without worrying about waffle, the D, the first pre trial etc etc. No noise in my head.

Now on to finish this darn book for book club meetup...

Edit: I could start a thread to rival the dating thread entitled "awkward guys met at meetups". Made it extra refreshing to find a normal one. The meetup ladies have been great.

[This message edited by roughroadahead at 10:44 PM, July 21st (Sunday)]


BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism

Posts: 729 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
cmego
Member
Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, July 22nd (Monday)

I met my first SO at a MeetUp, and have a good girlfriend from the same group!

It worked to help me open my social network


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4113 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
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