New Beginnings
User Topic: New Guides
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Happy  Posted: 11:43 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)

With Baxter resigning (who we’ll miss dearly!) we would like to officially announce two new Guides that will be joining our current group of Guides.

LosferWords and Chicho.

We are confident that these two men will be an excellent source of support and help to the SI community. Please show them respect as they are volunteering to help make SI the best it can be.

We encourage you all to take a moment to welcome them on board. Thank you Losferwords and Chicho, we really appreciate your help!!!

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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)


And to all guides/mods - thanks for all you do!

Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.

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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Yay! Welcome!!

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)


Fidelity isn't a's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!

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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Congratulations and thank you!

Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY
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Default  Posted: 12:21 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Congrats and thanks for all the work you do in the background to get the recognition of Guide!

Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 623 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
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Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Welcome! And thank you in advance for all you'll do.

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings

Posts: 4185 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Member # 30803
Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)


Welcome aboard! (said in my very best train engineer-type voice)

Me ($39.95 plus S & H)
DS1(17), DS2(15)

Enjoying this chapter in my life.
Learning that being alone does not mean being lonely.
Discovering that where I've been is not as important as where I'm going.

Posts: 355 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Right Here, Canada
Member # 27196
Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Thanks guys for volunteering your time! I'm picturing you guys wearing a hat like this while guiding us: 😆

And Baxter, thanks so much for your time as well! Here's some flowers for you.💐

[This message edited by painpaingoaway at 1:16 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]

me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1:
Episode 2:

Posts: 7099 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana

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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Thank you. I so appreciate that this board is well monitored and maintained. You make it work for all of us!
Thank you!!!!

BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)


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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Hey thanks guys for being here and volunteering your time for those in need. That's really cool you are willing and able to do that. And to Baxter, thanks for the time you put in as a guide and best wishes as you take a breather.

BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.

Posts: 1220 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Congratulations and welcome!

Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens

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Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 2:53 AM, July 26th (Friday)

Congrats and thank you

"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1360 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, July 26th (Friday)

Welcome and many thanks

DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!

Posts: 4965 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, July 26th (Friday)

Hey we appreciate the great news guys! Thanks!

Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
Member # 16891
Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, July 27th (Saturday)

Congrats and thank you.

It is what it is.

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