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MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

for an SI member that wants to remain anonymous. If we could lift them up in prayer and send mojo to assist them as they navigate obstacles that have been placed before them and hugs to let them know that they aren't alone.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49750 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Unagie
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Member # 37091
Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Sending prayers and positivity. I don't know your name but know people are thinking of you with care.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


Posts: 2362 | Registered: Oct 2012
nowiknow23
Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Sending it all. (((((anonymous)))))


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22581 | Registered: Aug 2011
travels
Member
Member # 20334
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Sending prayers and hugs.


When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.

Rest In Peace Bo the Beagle 1996-2011


Posts: 3744 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: PA
painpaingoaway
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Member # 27196
Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

(((SIer in need of prayer and care)))

We are with you. Praying for a positive outcome and strength to navigate the obstacles.

Stay strong.


me BS female 55/him WS 58
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 6763 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 8:57 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Sending prayers, hugs, mojo, and good thoughts.




Posts: 30612 | Registered: Mar 2011
TattoodChinaDoll
Member
Member # 34602
Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

((((((Anonymous))))) You are not alone


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 10 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 8, 5, 2, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

What am I doing?


Posts: 1550 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
ThoughtIKnewYa
Member
Member # 18449
Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Sending everything I have.


Posts: 10926 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
Williesmom
Member
Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

You are in my thoughts.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7002 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
sad12008
Member
Member # 18179
Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

SI-er in need has hugs, mojo, & loads of positive energy w/ a card that says, "just for you from sad1"!


"Everybody's life is hard. You look at life, and it's not a cakewalk. You've got to be able to bounce back." --Neil Young, father to two children with CP, another with epilepsy, and otherwise experientially qualified to comment

Posts: 3770 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
AFrayedKnot
Member
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Prayers


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better. Reconciled from the A's but still working hard for a better tomorrow.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2415 | Registered: Aug 2012
FaithFool
Member
Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Super powerful, this SI mojo. Big hugs.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
Celebrating 60 years on Earth

Posts: 16621 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
metamorphisis
Administrator
Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Sending love and mojo



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 42760 | Registered: Sep 2006
cmego
Member
Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Love and mojo....


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 40, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, separated 3 years, together 17
Alis volat propriis "She flies with her own wings"
separated 1/2011

Posts: 3590 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
jrc1963
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Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Sending prayers, hugs and mojo


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 23969 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
caregiver9000
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Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I like TCD's sentiment: You might be anonymous, but you are not alone. SI mojo and love winging your way.

(((hugs)))


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 12 DS 9
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5290 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
h0peless
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Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Mojo inbound.

Posts: 1316 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
Jrazz
Guide
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 1:10 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Lots of prayers and mojo for our friend.


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14621 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
woundedby2
Member
Member # 18522
Default  Posted: 2:30 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Sending it all....

(((Friend)))


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7625 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
DeadMumWalking
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Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 2:35 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

((((anon))))

Sending you strength, positive thoughts and mojo. You are not alone, we are backing you as you navigate these obstacles.

Here with you all the way.

((((anon))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2502 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
pmal64
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Member # 13551
Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

hugs and prayers!


.:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:.
BS-me-48
fWH -51

Posts: 553 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: down south
ajsmom
Member
Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Covering you in prayer.

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21009 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
lynnm1947
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Member # 15300
Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

(((in need SI member))) May all your outcomes be happy ones.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 6926 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
tushnurse
Member
Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Done!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 6558 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
MovingUpward
Guide
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Thank you everyone.

I am always amazed at the giving and love that come from the SI Family.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49750 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
stroppy_wanadoo
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Member # 11224
Default  Posted: 10:55 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

May peace and comfort fill your heart and mind. Hugs and many, many positive thoughts!

Posts: 955 | Registered: Jul 2006
nutmegkitty
Member
Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

((hugs))


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2490 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
sisoon
Member
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Late, but count me in


FBH (me) - 65+, FWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together almost 49 (as of January, 2014)
DDay - 12/2010
Almost Recovered
I share my own experience not because I'm a good model but because it's the only experience I know.

Posts: 8892 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Faithful w/Love
Member
Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Sending prayers!


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)37
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2459 | Registered: Aug 2011
gma56
Member
Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Sending prayers for the strength, wisdom, and peace you need at this time.
Hugs
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

Posts: 20275 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
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