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thecosmogirl
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I triggered bad today!
Had an argument, he got loud and defensive and my Spidey Senses went haywire!!!
Went to a bar. Sat there for 3 hours talking to the bartender and one old guy (place was empty besides us). Had 2 drinks and 3 big glasses of water (I'm too smart to drive drunk).
Went home and left him in town (we live 25 miles on the out skirts). We drove in together. He will make it home or not. Don't really care right now.

I know this is part of it but, crap!!! I didn't even pretend to hide my crazy. Miranda Lambert would've been proud, lol
I feel better already. I'm so glad this place is here :)


Me: BS
Him: doesn't matter anymore...or does it...

Being very, very careful

D-day 14 June 2013


I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!


Posts: 168 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: trying to figure it out
brkn_heartd
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Member # 30396
Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I am sorry you have had a rough day. Take care of yourself.


Me-51 BS
Him 58-WS
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1654 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Wait.. did you guys go to the bar together?

Be safe. Take care of yourself.

(((thecosmogirl)))


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17864 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
WeepingBuddhist
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Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 7:21 AM, July 26th (Friday)

Ha! I love that song! It saw me through many days before R (and many days since!)

It may have been inconsiderate to leave him to find his own way home, but it seems a relatively deal-withable consequence of betraying you.


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 615 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
thecosmogirl
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Member # 39707
Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, July 26th (Friday)

That song is pretty good :)

I went to the bar alone. Not one of my smarter ideas.
He came home, early in fact. He keeps apologizing but, seems like my give a shits busted right now.
Not mad though, not anything. It's weird. And since I keep referring to songs, Pat Benetar keeps playing in my head....
I went running this morning and that always helps.


Me: BS
Him: doesn't matter anymore...or does it...

Being very, very careful

D-day 14 June 2013


I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!


Posts: 168 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: trying to figure it out
WeepingBuddhist
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Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, July 26th (Friday)

I had to take kreayshawn off my playlist but I did leave "you ain't woman enough" on there.


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 615 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
1Faith
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Member # 38975
Funny  Posted: 4:34 PM, July 26th (Friday)

How did he get home?

I am glad you were safe.

Sometimes you have to just take a break.

Lady Chardonnay has been my friend a many of nights. Not always a good thing but hey...you have to do what you need to do.

Hang in there Cosmogirl.

Sending hugs....

xoxoxox


"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

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