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25yearslater
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I was cleaning out my closet today and found a Precious Moment figurene (still in the box). We have figurenes from early on in our marriage, in fact PM was on our invitations, napkins, cake top, ... for our wedding. I don't remember where this one came from but the saying for it is: "let's work on putting the pieces together". Its the PM girl & boy putting a heart puzzle together. When I took it out of the box I had a thought that this would be perfect along with an 'I forgive you' note. A big WOW for me. I've been working on myself and forgiveness but it seemed to hit me so "easily". Do I dwell, analyze, and think more or go with the moment? BTW - I'm typically the above.


me: 50 yrs old BW
him: 50 yrs old WH
Together: 33 years
Married: 28 years (?)
2 teenagers that we love dearly!
DDay: November 2010
DDay #2: July 30, 2011 found out restarted EA with same MOW (ended before I found out)
DDay #3 & #4: 11/26/11
D

Posts: 118 | Registered: Jul 2011
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I think this is a great ah-ha moment and a wonderful piece of your history as well as symbol of your future.

Shen ever you decide to share this with him will be the right time. And remember, just because you do this for him doesn't mean that all is forgotten. The hard work continues. As long as you're confident that he will understand and accept that, I say go for it.


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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