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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, July 26th (Friday)

My H got shitfaced while out of town and went along with his "friend's" bright idea to order up some escorts. Received unsuccessful (he was too drunk) oral from a hooker. Awesome. I found out two weeks later.

July 26, 2009 was also the due date of the baby I miscarried in January 2009, and the birthday of our dog, who passed away two days after I found out that I was pregnant with the baby I lost.

So July 26 can suck it!


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6809 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, July 26th (Friday)

(((JanaGreen)))


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2635 | Registered: Aug 2012
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, July 26th (Friday)

(((Jana)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10383 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Lalagirl
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Member # 14576
Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, July 26th (Friday)

((((Jana))))


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS,22 mo.& 2 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5079 | Registered: May 2007
HeartInADustpan
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Member # 38341
Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, July 26th (Friday)


(((Jana)))

Hang in there.


Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
JanaGreen
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Member # 29341
Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, July 26th (Friday)

I'm doing fine .

I had a moment earlier . . . my husband's little "friend" from college (I am 1000% sure that nothing happened physically between them, but I didn't appreciate him talking to her behind my back) had posted something on facebook asking what to do in Atlanta with one child-free day, and someone posted a reply to her suggesting to go to a Braves game.

So we're going to the beach next week, Sunday-to-Sunday rental. My H called and asked if I thought it would be fun to go ahead and leave tomorrow and catch a Braves game on the way down.

Trigger trigger trigger! I immediately jumped to, he's spoken with her and knows she's going to be there, and that's why he wants to go. I mentioned that to him and he said that he had no idea that she posted that, he doesn't go on her page, and he would rather just get rid of Facebook altogether, and suggested that maybe I could run his business page and he could just delete it? Good response.

Later I went on her page and saw that she's not going to even be going anytime soon (she had responded that it won't be during baseball season) so it was really just me being paranoid. Fuck this date.

[This message edited by JanaGreen at 9:39 AM, July 26th (Friday)]


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6809 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, July 26th (Friday)

(((Jana)))

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HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, July 26th (Friday)

(((Jana)))


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


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