User Topic: Ha! OW quits her job after he moves in!!
Member # 36579
Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, July 26th (Friday)

Found out that OW3 has quit her job now that STBX has 'officially' moved in with her LOL. I saw him briefly yesterday when collecting some of the kids' things and I couldn't resist saying 'ha! you're not going to put up with that for too long!'. He was all flustered and said 'I didn't know she was going to do that!!'

This is the man who thinks money is everything, who insisted I go back to work full time after having DS and was furious when I put my foot down and went back part time after having DD. He always said I was 'lazy' for working part time.

Now he's the only breadwinner in their household. He would be fuming right now. I guess karma is starting to work its magic!

Me 46
ExH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS11 & DD7)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14

Posts: 180 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 26864
Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, July 26th (Friday)

divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"

Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
Faithful w/Love
Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, July 26th (Friday)

serves him right!

BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"

Posts: 2777 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, July 26th (Friday)


Couldn't happen to a better asshole - beep beep!!!!

Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2604 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Random thoughts
Member # 2959
Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, July 26th (Friday)

Other things ow3 should stop doing.

Cooking dinner (every night should be take out night)

Cleaning house (time should be wasted watching Jerry Springer type shows)

Being attentive (now that she won her prize & moved in, why bother)

Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.

Posts: 1604 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Some where in New Jersey
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, July 26th (Friday)

Love it!

BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 918 | Registered: Mar 2013
Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, July 26th (Friday)

My ex's new dad did the exact same thing! She loves money more than anything else and it warmed my poor little heart more than you could know.

Posts: 1731 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Member # 4286
Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, July 26th (Friday)

Cooking dinner (every night should be take out night

In fact, she'll just place the order. He can pick it up on his way home. Since he is already out and in the car and all.

Cleaning house (time should be wasted watching Jerry Springer type shows)

That's what Molly Maids is for. He should pay for them to come at least twice a week, right?

So funny!

My ex and I never had kids. But we did try and we had a lot of discussion regarding when I would go back to work. He made a good living and could easily have supported us all. But we would have had to give up some luxuries like multiple trips a year, some of his golf outtings, etc.

At first he was agreeable that I would stay home until child was old enough to tell me if they were being mistreated or neglected. I figured age 3. He sat on that for a while. Then came back and said it could only be one year and oh, he wasn't happy about supporting me fully for that one year. He just couldn't stand the thought of me not working.

When I found out about his 20 yr old stripper girlfriend with the 3 yr old child I made sure to tell him that he better be very careful or Trixie would be getting knocked up pretty quick and expect him to support her so she could get off the pole.

Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink

Posts: 3085 | Registered: May 2004 | From: Midwest
Member # 18334
Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, July 26th (Friday)


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

Posts: 4787 | Registered: Feb 2008
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, July 26th (Friday)

Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011

Posts: 9815 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
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