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BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, July 26th (Friday)

As some of you know, my ex's family and I had a TERRIBLE relationship. His stepmother is a bipoler monster (not kidding, she turns into a green raging maniac when she is upset) and constantly flew off the handle at me when DD's dad and I were together- called me names, insulted me and my parents, and even went as far as to say DD was not part of her family because she was related to me. In addition, she knew about DD's dad cheating and hid it from me for months. She is just a disgusting POS and I ended up telling her where to shove it, that she was never allowed to speak to me ever again, and blocked her from e-mail and from calling me.

It has been 4 glorious years since I spoke to her. And what did she do? She invented a brand new e-mail address JUST to e-mail me and let me know that DD's dad told her I am getting married soon, and she is shocked that someone would want to marry me.

Half of me wants to respond and just really let her have it.

Instead, I had my lawyer send her a letter warning her against future harassment.

Best money I ever spent. Further confirmation right before my wedding that leaving DD's dad and his three ring circus family. LOVE IT!!!

Everyone have a happy day and a glorious weekend! :)


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, July 26th (Friday)

bump




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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, July 26th (Friday)

That's awesome girlie!!! Good for you for keeping up NC while still getting your point across!! YAY!!!

Congrats on your upcoming wedding!!!

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 8:06 PM, July 26th (Friday)]


"Life's curve balls come out of nowhere.... just remember to duck and weave!"

ME - BW - 34
HIM - XWH - 38
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2401 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, July 26th (Friday)

That is awesome. Congrats on the upcoming wedding.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, July 26th (Friday)

What a hateful bitch!

And congratulations on finding someone who wants to marry you!


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 12 DS 9
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5288 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
persevere
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Default  Posted: 1:07 AM, July 27th (Saturday)

Way to take control from an obvious control freak! :-). Now put the crazy behind you and focus on what truly matters!!! 😘


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
ExposedNiblet
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Default  Posted: 1:23 AM, July 27th (Saturday)

Yes!!!

You handled that wonderfully!


Divorced
Me ($39.95 plus S & H)
DS1(17), DS2(15)

Enjoying this chapter in my life.
Learning that being alone does not mean being lonely.
Discovering that where I've been is not as important as where I'm going.


Posts: 353 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Right Here, Canada
lostmommy
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, July 27th (Saturday)

Holy crazy woman, batman! Glad you're away from the nonsense. Best of luck to you with your new marriage!


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, July 27th (Saturday)

Way to go!


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, July 27th (Saturday)

I love the way you handled this.


happiness is a direction, not a place.

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better4me
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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, July 27th (Saturday)

some people are CRAZY. You managed it well!!

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 2818 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
burnt_toast
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, July 27th (Saturday)

Whenever I ran into gratuitously hateful or mean people, my grandfather would tell me not to worry, that they would eventually die from a bad heart. Wise man.

You did the right thing.


It is what it is.

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