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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, July 27th (Saturday)

I don't even know what to post
If I start typing what happened in my marriage this will be extremely long, as I have so much to get out . I feel alone and confused. I can't even type this without crying.
Please tell me what length for a post is acceptable. Thanks

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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, July 27th (Saturday)

..there is no scale when it comes to acceptable length of posts.. can put your whole story on as a post or put it in your profile..then ask for more specific help with your questions, and feelings..

sorry you are here but you'll be glad you found SI.

..lots of folks will be here for you, although, the weekends tend to be a tad slower, less traffic.. can ask pretty much anything here.. outside of politics and religions..

welcome Pc..


[This message edited by somanyyears at 7:48 PM, July 27th (Saturday)]

trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf

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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, July 27th (Saturday)

As long as you need it to be.

Sorry to see you here. There is a wealth of knowledge, experience, strength & compassion on these boards.

Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R

Posts: 1005 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: MA
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, July 27th (Saturday)

Take as much space as you need, man. Just remember to breathe while you type.

People here a very understanding and will take the time to read your story.

Me: BH - Happily Remarried, but dealing with old stuff

I'm losing my mind in a bedroom with a ghost
and I'm losing my mind in a bottle while I choke
I stayed years with you, no one knows (but I want them to).
Thought Industry

Posts: 44 | Registered: May 2013
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, July 27th (Saturday)

Welcome to the best place you never wanted to find yourself.

Read and post and ask all you want. There is tons of experience and hope here.

One little tip- try to break really long posts into paragraphs. It makes it easier to read and you will get more feedback.

BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, July 27th (Saturday)

Hello Phillycat,

Welcome to SI. Sorry you are hurting.

This is a safe place to post your burdens. Let us help you carry them.

It is what it is.

Posts: 4712 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Quelque part
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, July 28th (Sunday)

Thank a bunch guys... I just added my story to my profile and I am going to be asking some questions. Again thanks for the support..there's comfort knowing I have somewhere to turn

Posts: 20 | Registered: Jul 2013
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, July 28th (Sunday)


Don't worry about the length of your say whatever you need to say..and we will help.

The only thing we ask is you divide your posts into makes it A LOT easier to read that way,lol.

You're safe here. Im glad you found us,but sorry for the reason you're here.

FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling?

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.

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