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trustagain
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, July 29th (Monday)

My SIL was just diagnosed with breast cancer. Her surgery (lumpectomy) is scheduled for Thursday. She went to visit my niece last week (her daughter) and while on the plane felt a new lump at her collar bone. Needless to say she didn't enjoy her trip too much. She did call the surgeon and told him what she felt and she has an appointment with him tomorrow.

Please say a prayer that they don't delay the surgery because of this new finding.

She is in panic mode (and so am I, but I won't let her know that). She just wants to start this whole process (surgery, chemo, radiation) so she can move forward with her life.

Her kids (young adults) are a mess - they just lost their father last year to cancer (my brother).


WH - 47
BS (me) - 50
Son - 24
Son - 17
Dday #1 - 10/31/07
Dday #2 - 12/23/07
Dday #1,000,000 - 12/23/09 - found out EA was PA
Reconciling or at least trying. We have reconciled through the A, but he still doesn't get it when it comes to p

Posts: 4459 | Registered: Nov 2007
DeadMumWalking
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Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, July 29th (Monday)

((((SIL))))

Sending strength and surgery mojo!!

((((SIL))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2502 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, July 29th (Monday)

Covering her in prayer.

Please keep us posted!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21009 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Mojo, Mojo, Mojo


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 6558 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
MovingUpward
Guide
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, July 29th (Monday)

sending prayers


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49750 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
jrc1963
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Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Sending Prayers!!!


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 23969 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Sending prayers.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 34646 | Registered: Sep 2007
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Sending prayers.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4002 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, July 29th (Monday)

(((SIL)))

Sending prayers




Posts: 30612 | Registered: Mar 2011
jjsr
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Member # 34353
Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Sending good thoughts


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1529 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Texas
metamorphisis
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Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Sending mojo and love.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 42760 | Registered: Sep 2006
InnerLight
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Member # 19946
Default  Posted: 12:18 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Envisioning a healthy outcome for her.


Here's to A New Life of Excellent Health, Financial Abundance, Nature's Beauty, Amazing Art and Personal Creativity, with Love, Beauty and Peace All Around Us.

Posts: 5546 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: United States
cinnamongurl
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Member # 37879
Default  Posted: 12:46 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

(((SIL)))
Sending Positive energy and strength!


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 17 yrs. "You were sick, but now you're well again, and there's work to do."
Kurt Vonnegut



Posts: 457 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

(((SIL)))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15278 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl
Gottagetthrough
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Member # 27325
Default  Posted: 5:34 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Praying for your sil and her family.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2010
itainteasy
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Member # 31094
Default  Posted: 6:42 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Praying for your family...


Posts: 3080 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Faithful w/Love
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Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Sending prayers and blessings over your family and SIL.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)37
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2459 | Registered: Aug 2011
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