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meplustwo
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Member # 39082
Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, July 29th (Monday)

So, one of the nice things about my separation is moving to a new community and meeting new folks. I moved to a very small town. Very picturesque new England. Kids ride their bikes down the sidewalk. Neighbors greet each other with hellos....but now I am about an hour from my office and I don't really want to work there anymore. I just found a job at a private day school about a mile from home. And my kids could go there for free if I work there! I so want this job! Crossed fingers, here's hoping!


Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Maine
Faithful w/Love
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Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, July 29th (Monday)

fingers are crossed!


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2661 | Registered: Aug 2011
IrishLass518
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Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 11:34 AM, July 29th (Monday)

Fingers crossed for you and I am hoping to hear on 2 jobs this week so maybe we can send job mojo to each other


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1723 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, July 29th (Monday)

***job mojo***


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13687 | Registered: Jul 2011
Rebreather
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Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, July 29th (Monday)

Get that job!!!!!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6359 | Registered: Jan 2011
LAFA
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Member # 31868
Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Sending all the mojo I can muster! All the best!


When you put someone on a pedestal, they quickly learn two things. The view is mighty good from up there, and it is a fine vantage from which to kick.

Posts: 183 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Hawaii
meplustwo
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Member # 39082
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Thanks for the wishes and job mojo to you too IrishLass!


Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Maine
still2suspicious
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Member # 31722
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Sending mojo to you, and IrishLass.

Good luck. And free tuition? Man, how can you beat that??


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1278 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
petite71
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Member # 36475
Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, July 29th (Monday)

I hope you get this job. Crossing my fingers with the rest of the SI folks.


1st DD 03/24/2012 2nd DD 07/13/2012 TT A. in 2002 same girl when we were dating.
Status:Getting Stronger...we can get through this & are healing together
BS(me):41
WS(Husband):40
LTA 10 yrs EA/PA 9 times. friends with benefits.
Us..Together 12 yr

Posts: 125 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA
jjsr
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Member # 34353
Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Good luck


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1617 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
Deanna
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Member # 26854
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, July 29th (Monday)

So sending you good mojo!


DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

Posts: 1419 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Northeast
wanttofeelwhole
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Member # 31830
Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Fingers crossed. Good luck.


Sorry I don't edit the typos
Love is giving someone the power to destroy you...but trusting them not to.-Unknown
For every good reason there is to lie, there is a better reason to tell the truth.-Bo Bennett
Memory is a complicated thing, a rel

Posts: 786 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Sliding down the backside of the rainbow
laney57
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Member # 35617
Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Prayers!
Funny story... I got a call from my friend in another state (the state I left for WH relocation - why???). Anyways, she left me a message saying she got a ft job and that she had a feeling that I am next. Well, sh*t... Guess who got a FT job offer today?? ME!! You're next meplustwo!!


Me - BS, 43
Him - WH, 45
Married - 22 years
D-Day - 05/12/2012
Trying to find me.
Gotta do this, but I'm broken - headed for divorce - 02/20
Hell if I know - 02/24
INS 07/2013 Divorcing

Posts: 226 | Registered: May 2012 | From: KY
SoVerySadNow
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Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Good luck!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
noescape
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Member # 34888
Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, July 29th (Monday)

prayers to both you and ILass...
hope you land them jobs, also send me some since I got 2 lined up but no word yet... :(

Posts: 739 | Registered: Feb 2012
RidingHealingRd
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Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 11:52 PM, July 29th (Monday)

Wishing you, and Irishlass, good luck! May those jobs be yours.


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2109 | Registered: Nov 2011
Spelljean
Member
Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Sounds perfect! Best of luck!


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Ladyogilvy
Member
Member # 31558
Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Good luck!


Me: BW a youthful 49
Him: alcoholic, sober now, WH 56
Married 19 years
Two sons, 16 & 17 years old
DD? He's still keeping secrets and only admits to what I have indisputable
evidence of... the $2000 earrings he bought her for x-mas.

Posts: 1512 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: California
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