During the courtship and history of our relationship. H's #1 love was beer. That was until I was going to leave him. He's recovering now and drinking is a no tolerance behavior.
Thing is, now that he's sober, we don't have the same interests. Actually, we never did. Total opposites. We can both "appreciate" the things the other likes, but that's about it.
Anyone else with a spouse who likes different things?? What do you do to bond or spend time together?? We do have 2 little ones, so that makes it harder to spend time together, alone.