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cinnamongurl
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Default  Posted: 1:12 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

OK. Just curious SI because my furbaby is such an important part of my life, which best describes you, cat person, dog person, other (specific). And if you have pet(s), what's their name(s)?

I'm mainly a cat person, but I love all animals. Just always had cats and lived in cat friendly places. I currently have a 2 yr old rescue kitty named... ready for it...? Cinnamon! She's a total love bug! Sweetest kitty I've ever had!


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stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 1:31 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

[This message edited by stilllovingher at 1:34 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)]


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cinnamongurl
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Default  Posted: 1:35 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

So I take it you're a... cat person?

But really, I love labs! Zeus is awesome!!


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 1:50 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I'm an animal person.

We have 3 dogs:
Gabriel (mini American Eskimo)
Dippy (black lab/GS mix)
CJ (white german shepherd)

We have 2 cats:
Adrian and Whisper (brothers we adopted from the SPCA)

We've had birds as well as other cats and dogs that have passed away over the years.

@Cinnamongurl - I used to have an rusty/orangey and white kitty also named Cinnamon! She was one of the sweetest cats I've ever had the privilege to serve.


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stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 2:59 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I'm definitely a dog person, but its not so much that I dislike cats, its just I'm allergic to them.


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 5:31 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I'm an animal person. At one time or another I've had as many as 3 dogs, 6 parrots, an iguana, 2 sugar gliders, 4 guinea pigs, one cat and untold numbers of fish, both fresh and saltwater.

I've always been more of a dog person, but that's situational. My father didn't like cats, so we never had them as kids. I inherited my only cat from the X's family after we married. I just seem to live with dog people.


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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

We have had guinea pigs, hamsters, gerbils, dogs.........

Right now we have 1 dog, a Cardigan Welsh Corgi named Gordo and 1 domestic shorthair cat, tuxedo variety, named Carmine.


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sadcat
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Default  Posted: 6:16 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I love dogs but I have to say I am a cat person.

Shocker, I know


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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 6:39 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I'm a catdog person.

I have an Australian Cattle Dog (Smokey-my baby) and my fiance has a black lab (Ember-my girlfriend!), and his mother has 9 cats, including Fluffy-the-greatest-cat-in-the-entire-world.

I love animals. I'm allergic to cats, but I can't stay away from them. Especially Fluffy, who is like a kittydog--he comes when he's called, and he's always so excited to see me. I'm his human, I guess.

I'm hoping his mother will let us take Fluffy when we move to FL...because the dogs will be staying with our parents. Smokey and my dad have a bond that would break both of their hearts if I tried to separate them. And our apartment only allows pets up to 30 lbs. Ember's too big.


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Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 7:02 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Oh Lord, I'm a mega-pet-person. I currently have 3 dogs, a bunny, parakeets, and more freshwater aquariums than I can count. Yes, I live in a zoo, and I'm the curator!

I have also had a prairie dog, guinea pig, hamsters and cats. My current dogs are not "cat friendly", so after my cats lived out their natural lives, I didn't get any more cats.


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

We love both cats and dogs, but as a family have only had cats so far. We have two wonderful cats. A week from today we get our chocolate lab puppy!!

Then I am suspecting my kitties will pack their things and move out in protest.



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lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 7:07 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I am definitely a dogcat person. Dogs first and foremost and we have a funny border collie/lab cross who makes me laugh every day and is utterly amazing with my two year old daughter.

My last cat was a true companion through a lot of sad and hard times and when he died I just knew I probably would never get a cat again. That was in 2006 and I haven't felt differently yet.


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

A week from today we get our chocolate lab puppy!!

Meta, please post pics when you get your new baby. I love lab puppies!

As for me, I love, love, love dogs. Can't stand cats which is fine because I'm severely allergic to them.


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SunsetLost
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Default  Posted: 7:27 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I'm an animal person, but I grew up with 5 cats, so that's where my preference falls.

I pick up my new rescue kitten this monday


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I am an animal person.
Currently at my lowest level of pets since the kids were little.
We have a Black Lab who is quite possibly the smartest dog I have ever owned, Lucy.
We have a rescue kitty, who is also all black, Minnie (when we got her she was almost 7 months old and only weighed 5 pounds, who knew with good nutrition, and a good home she would no longer be a minnie, currently she tops the scale at an even 10 pounds).
And last but certainly not least we have Paul the Pig. He is a Guinea Pig, and we got him for my daughter, but he is really my pet. He goes crazy when he hears me walk into the house, open the fridge or talk in the kitchen, I am the goodie lady. These little guys are fun pets, and good garbage eaters. He gets all the scraps of veggies when I cook, and rarely will turn down any of them.

In the Past we have had as many as 3 LARGE dogs, 2 cats, and a Leopard Gecko. We suffered the loss of my Dane - Gracie, my Golden - Harry, and my Maine Coon mut kitty - Moe all last year.
The kids are teens and will soon be off to college, and I want to be able to pick up and go so we are not replacing the dogs, my Lab is only 3, so I suspect she will be around for quite some time.

I love my furfamily.


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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 7:52 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Animal person? Ya understatement

When I was in school a fellow classmate wrote a poem about the class. When he got to me he said:
" and then there's Dragnheart, the only person I know who would jump in front of a Mac truck to save a snail"

Not entirely true! Although I did park my car across the highway when my dog got out as a Mac truck headed towards him. He jumped in the car and I drove off the road before any crashes lol

As for what type of animal person I am...I like dogs and cats and anything else with fur, however my LOVE is for monitors. Large, nasty monitors. Waters, niles, sav's. Wh and I met because of a shared love of reptiles/exotics (and at the time he was breeding hedgehogs which I wanted) so having been told to talk to him I did...the rest is history.

our collection was almost complete when the inlaws kicked us out (FIL was also into it all) so we sold or re-homed most of our animals. We still have some. The ones that mean the most to us.

I also love fish. Guppies inparticular. My father used to have many aquariums and bred fish.


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Threnody
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Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I'm an animal person, the larger the better. We have a dog (Pookie) and two stray cats (Zoe and Midnight) who've chosen us, and I have a betta fish (Buddha) in my office who has been my cowriter for almost four years now. I only started keeping bettas in 2000, and discovered I really kind of like them. My husband and kids try large aquariums every few years, but when the fish eventually die we don't replace them for a while. I have to say I'm not a fan.

I'd like horses again, and I want to move out to the country ASAP (we're working on this) so I can finally get a goat. I'd also like to have an alpaca, and these two animals mean I'd need to get an Great Pyrenees dog and probably a saddle so I could ride the fencelines on the dog.

I've considered guinea pigs before, but I can't trust the cats at all. I can't stand the thought of birds being kept, even though I grew up part-time with many of them in a culture where this was nearly expected of each family. I always felt bad for the birds.

Oh! and I forgot the donkey. I want a donkey. I'm going to name it Xote.


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Default  Posted: 8:00 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I have a 30lb. miniature schnauzer (dog) named Blanca and yes, she's WHITE!


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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I tend to be a cat person, but our little toy poodle has caught my heart. I like dogs, but on a visitation basis.

We have a cat, TC (the cat). He's about five and the king of the house. Then the dog, Chip, he's nearly 2. Recently we acquired a kitten that I rescued off of the road. We were going to give her away, but once we found a potential home, suddenly MrH changed his mind. We named her Millie, DS is thrilled because its short for Amelia (think Doctor Who's Amy Pond).

She's been the perfect addition to our family, bringing the kitten back into TC at times and giving Chip a playmate nearly his size.


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sad12008
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I'd describe myself as a crazy dog lady, though I love all animals. A house is not a home for me without a dog (preferably >1) to meet me at the door, warn me of impending squirrel assaults on the property, etc.

When we finally got out of the moving every 18 months game, our menagerie expanded to include a small gaggle of Nigerian Dwarf goats, which are about the size of a Labrador Retriever. Their "job" here is brush control...

We have two Labs and a Pembroke Welsh Corgi who rules the roost. They go by a lot of names, but I'll identify each of them by one of their nicknames: Shameless, Lumpy, and Doodoo.

edited to add: Meta, I soooooo envy you getting a Lab puppy...I can almost smell the puppy breath!

[This message edited by sad12008 at 8:16 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)]


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woundedwidow
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I am "owned" by 5 cats, 2 of whom will undoubtedly go over the Rainbow Bridge this year (one is 17 and I had to put her sister down last month; the other is 16.5 yrs. and has hyperthyroid). However, I am a total animal person. Formerly had 3 dogs, and am considering getting one again when the 2 fragile cats are gone. Used to own 2 goats, Wilbur and Stella. I have 11 bird feeders in the fenced portion of the backyard, and a small waterfall and pond for them to drink and play/bathe in. Feed the German shepherd-sized old groundhog under my large shed carrots and grapes. Feed the ratsnake under the mulberry tree dead voles when the cats get them. Basically, if a critter is in my yard, it gets fed!


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Threnody
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Woundedwidow, you sound like my kind of person. I like outdoor feeders and when I lived around a lot of wildlife, it wasn't uncommon for me to put things out for foxes, etc. I love nothing more than to sit and wait for things to sneak out for the food I left.


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Thren - About the cat's and the pig - Well lets just say my old cat had no interest in doing anything to the pig. When we got our Minnie last fall didn't even cross our minds.....Until one day I looked at his cage and she was sitting in it, like she belonged there too. Now we keep a lid on his cage, lol. She still likes to stalk him, and will paw at him when he is eating. I have NO doubt she would do what comes naturally to him if given the opportunity.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
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Kalleigh
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Jazzy J the Black Lab

Brystal the Westie

Funny Bunny AKA Mamma June the Rabbit


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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Since my dear Arnold (female dog) and Smokey (male kitteh) passed on, I have no pets. My daughter has two Bengal tabbies, Mungo Jerry and Rumpleteaser, called Jerry and Teasy.


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

A word of caution about dogs and guinea pigs too. I had the horrifying experience of coming home at lunchtime to a scene of carnage--one or both of my dogs (a mastiff and a Belgian sheepdog) knocked over the cage and ravaged the poor piggie All I found was a pelt.

Neither of these two had ever attached ANYTHING prior and to this day I don't know who was the culprit, if it was indeed only one of them.


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Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I am mostly a dog person, but I also have a turtle (Bucko) and two aquariums: one is a salt water reef with fish and corals and the other is an anemone tank with clownfish.

I have Cairn Terriers:

Dolly (age 15)
Whiskey (8)
Paisley (7)
Rodeo (3)
Travis (3)
Mandy (10 mos)
Duke (10 mos - just went to a new home


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RedRaven
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Default  Posted: 10:54 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I have 5 dogs. 3 mini-wieners, a rescue Chihuahua, and my main man, Gunner, a German Shorthaired Pointer. LOVE them. The best therapy ever!!!!!!

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Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Dog person

Currently:

Connor eight year old male Sheltie (king of the house... He preens and puffs out his rough)
Katie four year old black lab: a little on the doggie autistic side and huge: 95lbs
Duncan: small Merle Sheltie: turns one on Monday; his nickname is Dino cause he barks ALL the time; reformed poo eater
MacLeod (Mac for short) five month old black lab puppy and my baby; he's curled up in the crook of my arm now; don't know what I'll do when he hits 60-70 lbs!?!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

We both grew up with dogs, but we are cat lovers. I also had guinea pigs (my girls!).
We currently have 3 cats:
Max, Moses & Smudge.

Six of my eight girls several years ago: (I love guinea pigs and I missing having them - that's a hint to H )


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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Animal lover here! But dogs are my fave. We've currently got two Chihuahua's, Coco and Kloi, and an adopted dachshund, Charlie. We lost our dear cats Kona and Flower last year and hoping to get a new kitten soon.


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solus sto
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I'm a dog- and cat-lover. My shepherd-Lab mix is Truman. He's also my personal trainer. My gray tabby is Phineas, and my calico is Chloe. I like each of them far more than I like most humans.

I'll post pics when I'm on the right computer.


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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

2 dogs, 2 cats. I could have many more of each, but only if I could live where the cats could be outdoor cats because I am no fan of the litter box.

And I want some chickens. And I'd really like a goat. I love goats. And maybe a cow. My dad had a pet cow growing up, so maybe I could have a cow, too.


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sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Animal lover here too I hope I'm not hogging the thread by adding some pics.

Stella my 11 year old female English Mastiff, who is still going strong.

I adopted two Enlish Mastiff puppies from the humane society last year. They are a year old now.

Max a GIGANTIC male who is as sweet as can be. Here with his littermate sister at a playdate.

Maggie who is just naughty enough to be cute as a bug. Here with the same sister at our "playdate". Maggie is in the background.

I also raise horses. These are their "barn" names. They also have fancy paper names.

Jammer, my retired American Saddlebred chestnut broodmare age 25. Mommy to three fabulous babies. Here she is with BabyJam as a baby.

Tess my 9 yo Black National Show Horse (1/2 Saddlebred & 1/2 Arabian) Broodmare. Here she is with Lucky, flashing by! lol!!

Summer my 6 yo Chestnut American Saddlebred broodmare & 1/2 sister to Jammer.

Charlie my 6yo Palomino 1/2 Arabian 1/2 QH Multiple National & Reserve Champion cutting horse. Charlie is a girl. Here she is at last years National championship. No, that's not me.

BabyJam is one of Jammer's baby's. She is a 5yo Bay National Show Horse 1/2 Arab English Pleasure Horse. Here she is all grown up. Nope, still not me.

SugarJam is a 4yo Black Bay National Show Horse 1/2 Arabian English Pleasure Horse and full sister to BabyJam.

AJ is a 3 yo dark bay National Show Horse Gelding. He is still in the pasture. He's going to training this fall. But he looks like he will also be an English Pleasure Horse.

Lucky is a 2 yo Black National Show Horse gelding who is a Western Pleasure Prospect. He is also still in the pasture. Still a baby. Both AJ & Lucky in the pasture. AJ on the right and Lucky on the left. This was taken yesterday.

[This message edited by sadtoo at 9:06 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)]


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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I always had dogs until right before the A/D, when I got a cat from the HS. He has been my boon companion. He is very affectionate.

I still love dogs, but they take more care than I'm willing to give these days. My kitty has an automatic litter box and feeder - I don't have to rush home to let him out. I can leave him home alone some on the weekends and he is fine.

When I vacation, I have someone come to the house once a day to check on him and give him love. That would not be possible with a dog.

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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I'm more a cat person but I love dogs too. H is most definitely a dog person. Currently we have one of each.


Fuzzybutt (Fuzz for short) is my 10 year old grey cat. Grumpy ole bastard with everyone but me.


Roxy is our rescue. She's part shepard, part beagle and part who knows what else. She's a mutt. Since we got her she's done a complete turn-around from how she was at the shelter. From being very wary, not looking at anyone and tail between the legs to a full on attention whore.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

I love dogs in theory and cats in practice.

ETA: darn phone! Currently limited by lease to just one cat - Peekaboo Titanic. DD named her. Just sayin'.

[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 5:06 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)]


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KVille
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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Currently at my lowest point in pets. Only have one cat now
Her name is Pain In My Ass (PIMA) and I love her to death.
I rescued her and she rescued me during the infidelity shit storm.


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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

sadtoo

I am so jealous!!! I would love a horse. Used to to ride years ago. Miss it so much!!!

Ok so I have to ask...am I the only exotics lover here? By exotics I mean snakes, lizards, salamanders, frogs, hedgehogs, sugar gliders, various turtles and tortises, fish (ie lung fish), tarantulas, parrots, ducks, turkeys (yes at one point we had a pet turkey ) etc???

Edited to add: had pot bellied pigs and goats too...

[This message edited by DragnHeart at 5:40 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)]


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stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

we've had a couple ferrets over the years.


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HopeFloats2272
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

You all are my kind of peeps

I love most non-human critters but I suppose I'm more of a dog person.

I worked as a vet tech and at the SPCA for many years before becoming a stay at home mom. Needless to say, I have never not had a pet in my adult life until last July when we had to put down our 18 year old dog.

A few months before last Christmas I started looking for a dog to adopt because our house needed some serious cheering up after (huge) DDay#2 in August. In February, after several shelter trips and meeting a few dogs from rescue groups I ended up finding a 1 year old Pug in the local paper that needed to be re-homed. My boys have been obsessed with pugs for years and begged for one but I told them we were adopting, not buying. I knew the second we met him that he was the one.

Diesel (we kept his name) has been the best medicine for post-affair recovery. He is absolutely the goofiest, sweetest cuddle bug ever! After having him for a few weeks it dawned on me that I was laughing again....something I hadn't done in a long time and not sure I ever would.
He is a life saver. I'd post a pic but have no idea how. Duh.

On a side note....This past weekend I made a trip to the Richmond, VA SPCA just to check out their state-of-art facility. It was great as far as shelters go. Now, I just need to win the lottery so I can build my own animal shelter. In the meantime, I volunteer to transport dogs from high-kill shelters to local rescue groups.


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DD#1: 1/10/12- 6mo EA
DD#2: 8/23/12-revealed 1PA, 2ONS in 2010 and 1EA/PA in 2004
DD#3: 9/10/12- ONS w/friend in 2010
Lots of other crap and TT - basically I was married to a guy that forgot he was

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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Now, I just need to win the lottery so I can build my own animal shelter.
I've said this same thingmany times!


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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Sad too, you pictorial t/j is so very welcome!

Everyone, thanks for sharing! I love all of the furry folks pics and stories!


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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, August 1st (Thursday)

Sadtoo, love those Mastiffs. Growing up we got a mut she was supposed to be half lab, and half St Bernard. She looked just like your Maggie. Her name was Sophie, and she was the best dog ever. I grew up with her, and still think of her often. (Personally I think there was a Mastiff in the mix.)


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, August 1st (Thursday)

Sadtoo your pictures are awesome!!!

I grew up with a St Bernard. I just love big dogs.

Here's the 4 week old picture of the litter my puppy is in. Your guess is as good as mine as to which one he is

We pick him up on Tuesday, and he will be a little over 8 weeks old.

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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, August 1st (Thursday)

Meta, I love all of the puppy cuteness!!!!! How could you just take one? I want them all!


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Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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Default  Posted: 11:34 AM, August 1st (Thursday)

Oh my, those puppies are too cute!

We have a ten week old Boston Terrier that is just adorable.

We also have a cat, guinea pig and a horse.


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

lieshurt.. I really worked on presenting my case for two but it was a no-go

We got the last one in the litter as well.



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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

lieshurt.. I really worked on presenting my case for two but it was a no-go

Too bad you live so far away....I'd love to puppy sit for you.

DS, on the other hand....

[This message edited by lieshurt at 2:29 PM, August 1st (Thursday)]


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Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

Meta, those puppies are so stinkin cute! love them!!! Omigosh, I'd never be able to take just one!

[This message edited by cinnamongurl at 11:14 PM, August 1st (Thursday)]


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Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

That is way too much cuteness in one picture!!!!

How in the heck did she manage to get them all to stay still long enough to get the picture?!?! I can't even get 2 kids to cooperate for a pic!


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DD#1: 1/10/12- 6mo EA
DD#2: 8/23/12-revealed 1PA, 2ONS in 2010 and 1EA/PA in 2004
DD#3: 9/10/12- ONS w/friend in 2010
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Default  Posted: 5:59 AM, August 2nd (Friday)

Meta,
OMG! Those puppies are so CUTE!! I can't wait to see more pictures of your puppy. Enjoy because they grow up so fast. I can't believe my two are already a year old in a couple days.

TN,
There must have been Mastiff in your Sophie because they are amazing dogs! I have so enjoyed these two puppies over this first year. They are so good. They are so eager to please and anxious to learn new things.

And I credit them with extending Stella's life. 11 is old for a giant breed.


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sometimes the best thing you can do for
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Default  Posted: 9:21 AM, August 2nd (Friday)

I'm an animal person that leans heavily into dog person..

At present I've got a 40+ year old Amazon Parrot that I inherited when my Mom died.. He adores me & yells "Mooom" just like the kids when he wants me to come play with him, there is no love like getting leathery kisses from a parrot.

This is Polly (Ya, my mom wasn't too original when she named him)

Then DD got 2 Guinea pigs for Christmas last year.. I love guinea pigs & their sounds & antics.. but I keep forgetting their names (I think they're Mercy & Belle) I call them "white piggy" & "Brown piggy"
Yes, white piggy is a big old dust mop

& the 2 tiered condo they call home

& this my friends, is the QUEEN of the house or should I say Princess as it's fitting her name.. Leia... she has EVERY single person in our house wrapped around her paws..

.

I have owned dogs all of my life & I can honestly say she is the BEST dog I have ever had, NEVER chewed anything ( well except for her used Kleenex fetish as a pup), was paper trained the day we got her & went to the sliding glass door to let us know she needed potty within 2 weeks of us getting her.. She is easily trained & I swear she understands when I talk to her. Her only 'flaw' is she is my Velcro dog.. She is constantly near me, (well, unless someone has food then "Goodbye Mom" )

I would love to adopt a playmate for her but I'm not sure how well she'd tolerate it.. She does love the guinea pigs & is so overprotective of them when they are playing out of the cage.. it kinda worries me


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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, August 2nd (Friday)

There are 15 of these in my kitchen. You just can't see them all. LOL. I'd say I'm a dog person, but there are also two cats that let us live here with them too.

[This message edited by ICouldntFixIt at 10:05 AM, August 2nd (Friday)]


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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, August 2nd (Friday)

ICouldntFixIt....omg, omg, omg...the puppy cuteness is too much. Lots of puppy breath!!!

So cute


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, August 2nd (Friday)

15???? I die.


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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, August 2nd (Friday)

Yep. Thirteen puppies and their mothers. And yes, on purpose. I'm not a crazy dog hoarder! I breed cocker spaniels and, much like us girls, they went into heat at the same time. Except for the poop, I'm in Heaven!


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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, August 2nd (Friday)

Except for the poop, I'm in Heaven


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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, August 2nd (Friday)

Love this thread!!! I am an animal lover. I currently have two 15 month old rescue cats - tuxedos, both girls from the same litter, and a (rescue) 4-year-old German Shepherd (female).


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Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, August 2nd (Friday)

Except for the poop, I'm in Heaven

I felt this way when my son was a baby


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, August 2nd (Friday)

Princess Leia has the sweetest little face!!

And oh my goodness! All the puppies! I'm almost drunk on the puppy breath just thinking about it.


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sometimes the best thing you can do for
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Default  Posted: 12:48 AM, August 3rd (Saturday)

I'm a dog person, no a cat person, heck I love all of them!! We have six dogs: Penny and Rocky are chihuahuas, Ladybug the pekeinese, Sophie the dachshund, Daisy the boxer, and Piggy the pit bull.

Then there are my kitties: Spot, Yodie, Lucy, and Olliver.

We tried hamsters, but Spot is a really, really great mouser, so they exited stage left about 10 minutes after we brought them home. My friend likes hamsters and they were a gift to her, lol !!

Yes our house is full! Again, I love it.


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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, August 3rd (Saturday)

Not their names (It's really Chip, Millie and TC). I loved that I got a pic of all three though. Most people don't get the Nermal reference though.

[This message edited by Holly-Isis at 12:15 PM, August 3rd (Saturday)]


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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, August 3rd (Saturday)

I'm a dog person. And dogs know it. When I lived in the country I had several neighbors dogs that hung out at my house. They knew they would get lots of attention .

It was almost comical to drive by place & see 5 to 7 dogs lounging in my yard.


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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, August 3rd (Saturday)

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[This message edited by mysticpenguin at 11:53 PM, October 19th (Saturday)]


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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, August 4th (Sunday)

4 welsh corgis here:
Willie
Norm
Katie
Bert

I used to have collies, but I needed something smaller after the divorce.

They are the best companions ever.


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Default  Posted: 9:16 AM, August 4th (Sunday)

Oh, thank goodness I'm not alone...

1 Sheltie named Peppermint Mocha
2 Gerbils names Oreo and Comet
1 Crested Gecko named Storm
1 Fire Bellied Toad named Inferno
5 fish named Tic,Tac,Toe, Striker, Lightening.

I'm beginning to think I should charge admission to my small zoo.


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M 15 years, together 17
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, August 4th (Sunday)

I'm beginning to think I should charge admission to my small zoo.
this is too funny! I pet sit for a couple of my friends, both have multiple pets, I always call it visiting the zoo!

It's wonderful to see so many animal lovers! I wish I had the space for many more than just my kitty, but I do get to pet sit and live vicariously thru all of them!


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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, August 4th (Sunday)

OHHH what a fun thread !!!!!

Definitely animal lover. I grew up with "wild" cats out in the country, and my "job" was to tame them and doctor them. Grandpa then got me a pony when I was 6 (to eat the grass on the property ya know )My neighbors had rabbits, pigs, chickens, ducks, and geese that I visited regularly. I had another pony and a horse for a while.

I did not have my own dog until I was in my early 20's and I got a sharpei named ChrisMoose (born at Christmas time) that we called Moose. We had many cats over the years, especially the early ones when we lived in apartments, they were all so different and so unique.

Currently I have no pets, but my kids do, we have fish, (have had birds, but none currently) have one cat (had 5 recently as I found a litter abandoned, but they all found homes), and 4 dogs (two mini schnauzers, one boxer mix and a new border collie puppy)

Someday when there is more room in our home I hope to have a dog of my own again, I love gettin to "borrow" a kids dog now and again, but miss having my own special friend.

Grace


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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, August 4th (Sunday)

I haven't been on SI for months but those who do remember me will recall that I eventually ended up mostly posting about animals anyway.

I am a total cat person, but also a dog lover and truly a total animal person!!

I have 5 cats, all rescue of course: Sisters Tiffany and Crystal are 7 years old; Brothers Smokey and Sparky are 5 years old; and Starlett is 4.

I had a wonderful rescue dog Holly (RIP) and have fostered other cats or dogs at various times but right now just have my 5 kitties....LOVE them all!


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Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, August 4th (Sunday)

Cinnamon!!!

[This message edited by cinnamongurl at 11:49 PM, August 4th (Sunday)]


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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 5:46 AM, August 5th (Monday)

I didn't post exactly what we have since well, i don't know how long we will have them (selling stuff) but here is the current list:

- 3cats (Oden and Annie are siblings we got from the neighbour tenant, cougar was a kitten I found alone in the shed after scaring off the raccoon...the mom and 3 other kittens were never seen again). Oh and since the Neighbours left for the cottage one of Oden and Annie's siblings that got outside has adopted Me!!!  She's not in the house but comes into our breezeway at night.

- Berlue. 7 yr old male chihuahua wh brought home as a surprise for me. All this dog does is lay on the sofa under the blankets and snore 

Deigo: African Grey parrot
Hogan: cockatiel
2 green parrotlets 
2 bearded dragons
2 leopard geckos
1 created gecko
1 common Nile monitor
1 ornate Nile monitor
2 sand skinks
1 pixy frog
1 whites tree frog
1 alligator snapping turtle
3 fly river (or pig nose) turtles 
2 ornate box turtles
1 Florida box turtle
1 three toe box turtle
3 Sulcatta tortises
2 snakes
1 two foot lungfish 
2 tailless whip scorpions 

And to think before we moved that list was twice as long.


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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, August 6th (Tuesday)

We are critter people:

Currently we have 5 dogs, 4 cats, and 2 rabbits. These are by far the biggest numbers we have had but I have some seniors in there that will not be replaced.

Dogs: Belle is an 11 year old Beagle, Snap is an 8 year old mystery mix, Teddy is a 7 year old Chow/Shepherd mix, Patch is a 4 year old Pit/Dalmatian mix, and Chance is a 10 month old Pit/Basenji mix. All of them have their stories because they were all rescued. Chance was my most horrific one. When we got him, the lady who had him was starving him. He weighed 27 pounds at 6 months old and every single bone in his body was visible. He basically didn't leave my couch for 2 weeks because he was so weak. I know he would not have lived if he had stayed there for another week. He now weighs over 40 and still could put on a few pounds and to the annoyance of Patch is extremely playful with her. She tolerates him in her princess style.

The 4 cats are Bonnie 6, Clyde 9, Nala 5, and Mojo 2. Bonnie and Clyde were Wal-Mart parking lot kitties, Nala was a neighborhood stray, and Mojo came from Joplin as a six week old kitten, was raised with Patch (of all animals) and is now the ruler of the house, or so he thinks.

The two rabbits were SUPPOSED to be fosters. Their owner moved out of state last September. Another friend had them and couldn't keep them so we took them in November. They are still here and the owner never checks on them, so I consider them ours. I really need to rehome them. They live in my garage. Harvey is a huge 10 pound solid white rabbit and Midnight is a smaller solid black rabbit. Sweetest things on Earth but they can't come in the house because my dogs would eat them and they create huge messes. I can say after having them, rabbits are not our thing, even though I would help one in need in a heartbeat.

I will say this though. I don't do feathered or scaly. Tortoises and turtles are ok, but snakes, lizards, etc. are a no and so are birds. My friend has some and I cannot take them. Kudos to those who can, they are just not my thing.


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DD1: 12/2/09-PA DD2: 05/25/12-EA with Ho-Worker;
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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, August 6th (Tuesday)

I don't have any pets. When I need some puppy snuggles, I just borrow one of my best friend's dogs.

Here is his latest rescue. She is such a sweet little baby. This is her laying in my bed:


This is one of his other ones. She is my favorite and is currently at my house:

[This message edited by lieshurt at 9:14 AM, August 6th (Tuesday)]


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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