User Topic: he opened another email account
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, July 31st (Wednesday)

WTF!!! So I went thru the history and found another email account, that I know nothing about!! He is at his IC session now. I am beyond pissed! I just don't get it!! Do I confront him about it? I tried all the possible p/ws I would know and none of them work? Do i just wait?
I was specific about new accounts, new passwords, deleting stuff (which he was doing in his old account) I confronted that and got b.s. then that's when he decided to create a new account. He gave me info to it, but apparently there is another "mystery" account out there!!!

Me BW (36)
WH (39)
together 16 years
2 kids: 6 DD & 10 month DS
TT: 4/26/13
TT: 5/6/13
more TT: 6/13/13
more TT: 7/9/13

Posts: 40 | Registered: Jun 2013
Member # 39077
Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, July 31st (Wednesday)

Hugs, Circle! With how much he's TT'd you, I'm afraid this means you're not at the basement level of the lie structure yet.

I would say this is a time to take really decisive and visible action. He's getting away with what he thinks he still can - that's not anything like remorse.

I'm so sorry.

Posts: 292 | Registered: Apr 2013
Member # 35497
Default  Posted: 7:30 PM, July 31st (Wednesday)

Most accounts require a secondary email address in case you forget the password. If you have access to his other email accounts, you can try to log into the new account, click the "forgot password" button and then reset the password from the email that they send to the secondary account. you can even change the secondary email address to your email so that he can't go back in and change it.

So sorry and good luck!

Him WS
LTEA with old HS GF from 25+ years ago
DD #1: 10/6/2011
DD #2: 10/21/2011
2DS under18
Status: We'll see.

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