I drift to an from this site.
Sometimes when something is bothering me I write a post and never submit it. I think of the other stories here I tell myself it's not that bad.
At least she didn't give me a std. At least she didn't have a baby by one of the OM. At least she didn't spend a lot of money (on second thought at least she did not spend 5 digit lots of money). At least we did not D and I see my kids daily. At least we were not virgins and vowed to be with only each other.