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ISPIFFD
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What?  Posted: 9:36 AM, August 1st (Thursday)

Just to start, I'm not actually upset about this, but still...

My ex found some old photos including one of him holding our son just a couple hours post-birth. Really a wonderful pic of both of them!

He posted it on fb and proceeded to get a slew of comments from current gfs about how sexy is a good-looking man with a cute baby!

Then our son -- the one from the pic who's now almost 26 -- commented that he probably wouldn't make as good a Wingman for ex now as he did then.

I so desperately wanted to jump into the thread, point out who actually did the work of producing that baby and mention that I did not give birth to him just so he could be my husband's Wingman to pick up other women!

I'm mean... really!?


Me: BW (55)
Him: WH (62)
7/14/11 - Divorced

Posts: 1876 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

Step away from the stupid, sweetie.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25835 | Registered: Aug 2011
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

LOVE your son!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9852 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
caregiver9000
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Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

Funniest thread title ever!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5864 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, August 2nd (Friday)

Celebrate that your son has integrity. And then celebrate that your life has one less person without integrity in it.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5320 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Helen of Troy
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Member # 26419
Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, August 2nd (Friday)

Ok ok it's funny but..... you've been around long enough to know... we're going to say this...

Stop checking x's FB. It's no good for you.


Posts: 4719 | Registered: Dec 2009
osxgirl
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Member # 8795
Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, August 3rd (Saturday)

Ok - maybe I'm just reading it wrong, but I took what your DS said to be a positive thing.

I read it as DS kind of disapproving of being used that way.

I know you said you aren't upset, but.... I'm just saying, I think your DS's comment was good... sarcasm often doesn't come across as well when it's written, but I would have taken that as a sarcastic comment from your DS. Read it that way and see how it sounds....


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