User Topic: Told his parents...
Member # 33156
Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, August 1st (Thursday)

They know about his affair I had to tell them things have not changed and I have filed for divorce.
They understood clearly upset his mom asked if we have been to counseling.we did try after dday for about six weeks maybe 8 lied to the counselor said she was just a friend and didn't sleep with her. Just touching and kissing LIAR....
Didn't do anything the counselor wanted us to do I tried he acted like he was not interested in getting things back.
So it's been 3 yrs still nothing has changed...he's seeing her found a card in his truck from her about love and missing u can't wait to be together.
Made me sick.
I showed them the card took pics of it
They didn't say much...
I didn't want to hurt them but they need to know I'm not just makin stuff up.
He is still having an affair with her.
Sorry this is long.
Just needed to get this out.
Thanks for listening.

I don't know what I'm doing
but I know what I'm not doing

Posts: 1301 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Illinois
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, August 1st (Thursday)



Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 52673 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Member # 30877
Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, August 1st (Thursday)


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
Member # 19197
Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

Must be a rough time right now, FogHater, but it seems like you're doing what you need to. Even after all the crap, I am sure D in not where you hoped to find yourself. There are better things waiting for you out there, and maybe now you can really begin to find them. Hugs.

Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married 30 yrs. w/ 2 grown kids
Dday 1: Very early 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.

Posts: 817 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 39570
Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

(((Foghater))) I'm sorry you are going through this.

Me: BS, Him: WH, 3 kids
8/08: EA with former neighbor
1/13: EA/Sexting with Coworker #1
6/13: Sexting with Coworker #2

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