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StillStanding1
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Member # 40144
Default  Posted: 11:09 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

New to all this, but have read almost every article in the Healing Library. Read several threads that recommended reading the "180" but I can't find it. Can anyone help?


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 20 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, MC/IC/FC,
He officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 517 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 11:14 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

Hello, and welcome.

The 180 can be found under BS FAQ #11. Here is a direct link:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11


Posts: 4514 | Registered: Dec 2010
dovetool
Member
Member # 37072
Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

((still standing))

use the above link. It will be very helpful. 180 is hard... of so very hard in circumstances like this. But you can do it and use SI to help you through it.


Me BS: 29
Him WH: 35
OW: 40 was a "friend". Our sons were best friends.
Married 11 years
D-day: 12/05/12
D-day: of who it really was 08/2012
R: started in 03/2012
True recover September... rough at first for me since I wasnt sure about

Posts: 67 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: dovetool
StillStanding1
Member
Member # 40144
Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

Thanks a ton! Looks like I have more reading to do! The FAQs look helpful!


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 20 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, MC/IC/FC,
He officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 517 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
LosferWords
Guide
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 11:33 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

You're welcome.

I found the FAQ section to be very helpful when I first joined, too.

Let us know if you have any other questions, or if there is any other way we can support you here.

Take care.


Posts: 4514 | Registered: Dec 2010
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