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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, August 6th (Tuesday)

I debated posting about my dream because it seems kind of silly to bothered by it, but I do need to get it off my chest.

The most vivid part of the dream is I'm sitting at work (my old job where my department was outsourced) and I'm talking to my cubemate when I look up and see my husband standing way to close with a woman (tall, short straight blonde hair, average build, I think glasses - basically if I saw her IRL I would recognize her right off the bat)and they were smiling and laughing. When she walked away he came up to me and we had this conversation.

Him: We need to talk
Me: Ok (I follow to where he's leading me)
Him: You need to get over this already.
Me: What? You're 7 online dating sites?

We start arguing and there was more to the conversation but it gets fuzzy.

Then I'm back at my desk because I have forms to fill out (he's said he was on the team that came up with the forms) and I remember a basic math equation similar to 1+1(2+3)= (I don't remember if those are the numbers but that was the format).

It's an odd dream and it just bothers me that I had it.

*ETA - Because the woman in the dream was so vivid I decided to check his linkedin profile to see if maybe she was there and he changed his password.

[This message edited by simplydevastated at 10:27 AM, August 6th (Tuesday)]


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
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TxsT
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, August 6th (Tuesday)

Simply...aren't dreams just wonderful???? NOT!!!!!

My take on it is that something deep down in your subconscious was telling you to check your current situation.....something was wrong. What I find more interesting is that you discovered he changed his Linked in password. Don't let this slip. Ask for the new password. I would even tell him your dream if you are trying to R.

I too had a dream last night. I was being stalked by my RWH's OW and she attacked me repeatedly with a knife. I woke up screaming and hubby pulled me into his arms and said over and over again that he was there to protect me, to love me, to listen. I was so shaken I couldn't fall back asleep right away but hubby never let go of me the rest of the night.

My dreams come because I am dealing with a delusional OW who just might one day show up to hurt me.....she has arrived once before unannounced, I am sure there will be another time. I know my dream happened because it was a tough weekend for us. A bit of a pendulum swing to the sad end of our situation. Thankfully H and I were able to discuss the trigger openly and honestly. The process opened up a new positive experience for us. The dream was telling me to be careful.

T


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!


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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, August 6th (Tuesday)

Tell me about, T. I thought I was passed this stage.

We're not R'ing, so he doesn't give up anything and all the information I do get is on the sly.

hubby pulled me into his arms and said over and over again that he was there to protect me, to love me, to listen. I was so shaken I couldn't fall back asleep right away but hubby never let go of me the rest of the night.

This warms my heart I don't remember what that feels like. Tell you husband from me that I said he did a good job

I hope that nut-job of an OW doesn't come back into your life.

[This message edited by simplydevastated at 1:43 PM, August 6th (Tuesday)]


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