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inmisery1
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Member # 30905
Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

The details come out he boinked this 1 in my car in the church parking lot after church

Posts: 234 | Registered: Jan 2011
plainpain
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Member # 40139
Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

Oh wow. I don't even know what to say to that. That's seriously messed up. I'm so sorry.


Me: Believer; 40s
Him: Liar; 40s
Married 19 years
1 year EA/2 month PA/incidental infidelities I can't begin to process
OC born 2014
OW:21
In successful R, but still in just plain pain.

Posts: 807 | Registered: Jul 2013
TS68
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Member # 40211
Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

I am sorry for you. Unbelievable, after church?? Why does he go at all? I am starting to wonder why these guys have no conscience or sense of right and wrong. It is all about getting away with it... Would love to know how you found this out. Did he tell you?



Married 20 years

Posts: 229 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Midwest
Phoenix9572
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Member # 39987
Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

(((inmisery1)))

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this new news. I don't know your full story but I did see that you have a hard time with places that you know your WH was with AP which is understandable. I'm sure this one is exceptionally hard.
Please take comfort in knowing you are supported by all the great folks here. It definitely helps me in knowing I'm not completely alone.


Me - 40
WH - 42
Married 18 years
kids - 14, 12
DD - May 13, 2013
DD2 - Aug 4, 2013
DD3 - Aug 27, 2013
Status - Legally separated; really wanted R but don't think that is possible anymore

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Southern Indiana
inmisery1
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Member # 30905
Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

Yes he came clean, he met her in a bar and she invited him to her church and if she breajs nc guess whos pastor is getting a call

Posts: 234 | Registered: Jan 2011
inmisery1
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Member # 30905
Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

AND today is my birthday!Wow! they are just keepin it classy

Posts: 234 | Registered: Jan 2011
madsadalone
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Member # 39201
Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

(((Misery)))))

Happy Birthday


Me: BS 47
Him:WH 55
M: 27 yrs
DD 4/29/13
3 kids (25,23,22

Posts: 82 | Registered: May 2013
confused615
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Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

Hey..it's my birthday too...it's after 12:00PM here...and my WH has yet to acknowledge that it's my birthday. hmm..Ive been telling him that I feel like I don't matter...this pretty much proves it,huh?

So...Happy Birthday..and to hell with our WH's today.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling?

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7671 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
gonnabe2016
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Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

Happy Birthday, girlies!!!!


And yes, that story is pretty damn gross.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8073 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
inmisery1
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Member # 30905
Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

It's so ridiculously horrible, it's funny! I'm just flabbergasted! What a turd.

Posts: 234 | Registered: Jan 2011
madsadalone
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Member # 39201
Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

T/J

It is also my daughter's birthday. Three strong, beautiful women!

Sorry end t/j


Me: BS 47
Him:WH 55
M: 27 yrs
DD 4/29/13
3 kids (25,23,22

Posts: 82 | Registered: May 2013
k9lover1
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Member # 8531
Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

Why do you continue to put up with this?


D-Day was 10/9/05
He promised NC. He lied. After 4 chances, I kicked him out 1/05/06.
Since then I have survived cancer surgery and a heart attack.
Now he's sorry, but it's too late.

Posts: 8109 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: Wisconsin
inmisery1
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Member # 30905
Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

Im not, i'm lawyering up asap. Were closing on a second home condo next week. i'm playing along until I talk to someone

Posts: 234 | Registered: Jan 2011
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