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kickboxer
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Member # 39858
Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

told me she had the worst dream ever last night.

Her daddy and I were dancing when a woman pushed me away, and he didn't stop dancing with her to come find me.

I wanted to cry over the pancakes on her plate.


BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 13 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
confused615
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Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

It sounds like she's heard something.

(((kickboxer and DD)))


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7142 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
Completelybroken
Member
Member # 40051
Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

How horrible!!! (((Hugs)))


Me-BS 31
Him-FWH 37
Dday-7-6-13
EA-1yr
PA sex 3-4times over three months during the EA

Posts: 93 | Registered: Jul 2013
unwound
New Member
Member # 39704
Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Give that little girl lots of hugs.


Me-35
WW-35
HS Sweethearts
Married 17 years
DS-15
DD-11
D-Day June 6,2013
Verizon + Integrated Messaging = I am secretly reading EVERY text and picture she sends.

Posts: 43 | Registered: Jun 2013
k94ever
Member
Member # 11176
Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Adults constantly under-estimate the observational powers of children.

Yeah....she knows

{{{hugs}}}

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6454 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
GingerAle
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Member # 33822
Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, August 9th (Friday)

((((kickboxer and little kickboxer))))

I am sorry, I know how painful it is for this crap to have any affect on our babies

Edited for typos.

[This message edited by GingerAle at 8:15 PM, August 9th (Friday)]


My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
Filed for D 7/2014


Posts: 400 | Registered: Nov 2011
Nature_Girl
Member
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, August 9th (Friday)

I agree with Confused. She's heard or seen something. Her mind has made sense of it, now it's coming out in her dreams. I hope you have her in counseling. (((HUGS)))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9307 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Topic Posts: 7