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csthy52
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Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

I used to frequent this site relentlessly back 8 years ago. I wanted to say that there is hope. After 8 years, I rarely think of the A, my marriage is strong. I have not forgotten, though, the horror that DDay unleashed. I hope this post makes some people feel that there is hope.


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married 16 yrs

Posts: 721 | Registered: May 2005 | From: new england
TS68
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Member # 40211
Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

Wow 8 years? What made you decide to come back to visit? I am still in the dark after I uncovered a bunch of lies about time my H spent with his secretary... Swears not physical but definitely crossed the line. Lots of lies, even after i begged him to stop. She still works with him and I am out of town with the kids, feeling nauseated constantly wondering what he is doing. So if I do uncover something deeper, is it really worth sticking with him? It will ruin my self esteem and I cannot wait 8 years...

I am happy for you, hope you NEVER have to go through this pain again!
Thank you for the support and encouragement


Married 20 years

Posts: 229 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Midwest
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