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wifehad5
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Target  Posted: 5:54 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

Lately there has been a rash of name calling and venting here in the Reconciliation forum. While venting and name calling is an important part of healing, this is not the place for it. Feel free to vent away in General. It can be cathartic. Don't do it here.

Reconciliation is a safe zone for people to post their struggles and successes. Please make yourself familiar with the Forum Description. It's on the main page right in the same box as the link to get here.


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 36478 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

I know someone must have read this. Just in case it's been completely missed ..here's a bump.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, August 9th (Friday)

Bumping for anyone who didn't see this yesterday.

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AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Thank you for the reminder


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2527 | Registered: Aug 2012
Rebreather
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Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Thanks for the head's up.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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LA44
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Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, August 9th (Friday)

I agree wifehad5! Thanks for posting that.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

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StillGoing
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Member # 28571
Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Understood and sorry again.

Also, every time I notice this thread title I hear it in a Geoff Tate shriek in my head.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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wifehad5
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Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, August 9th (Friday)

I was going to title it something different, but I was outvoted. I'll save that one for later


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 36478 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, August 9th (Friday)


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, August 10th (Saturday)



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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stillsad1970
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Member # 38977
Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

So sorry , didn't read this before I posted. Sorry everyone.

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, August 11th (Sunday)


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Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, August 12th (Monday)


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 26
5yo GS & 18 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/14(DD30) and 2yo GD(DD26). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, August 12th (Monday)


FWW - 40
I'm big on personal responsibility. Own your shit. ALL OF IT.

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Lucky
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Member # 6864
Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, August 12th (Monday)


Thanks for keeping it clean


♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥


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purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, August 12th (Monday)

And THAT'S why I don't post here. I can't trust myself!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, August 15th (Thursday)


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SI Staff
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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, August 17th (Saturday)

Bump

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