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Zamas
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Member # 38658
Default  Posted: 6:17 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

After months of searching, I got a job, one that I really wanted!!!

It's in the town where I live, two blocks from my kids school. The hours are 8-430 m-f and the best part is that the office closes in the summer so I would be laid off and collect unemployment and would be home with my babies.

I am on cloud 9!!!!!! Lame STBX and his stupid family who called DYFS on me AGAIN for no reason can't even touch me because finally I see a light at the end of the tunnel.

I am moving in with my mom and out of this terrible house on the 23rd, I finally have a job that will allow me to pay my bills and create a life for myself but best of all it gives me the freedom and stability to risk pissing off STBX so I can pursue the child and spousal support that I deserve, instead of keeping him nice and happy to throw me scraps. I can finally risk him not giving me money because I can support myself! I can finally get myself a lawyer and go after him like he deserves.

Finally, four months later, I'm starting to feel free instead of abandoned.


Me- SAHM 30yo BS
Him- 32yo WS
Three kids, 9, 7, 10mo

Their baby was born in Sept and they are happily househunting. He finally left 4/03.


Posts: 80 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: New Jersey
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

Awesome news! It sounds perfect. It's nice to see positive news here. Good luck with the new job!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5190 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
devistatedmom
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Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

congrats Zamas! Enjoy the job and go get him!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5513 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

Congrats1!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13756 | Registered: Jul 2011
caregiver9000
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Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, August 8th (Thursday)

I'm starting to feel free instead of abandoned.

Love this.

Congrats!!!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5842 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, August 9th (Friday)

This is so wonderful!!! Feels great when you have some financial security, doesn't it?!
Congrats to you!!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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