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User Topic: Well Butter My Butt And Call Me A Biscuit!
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Content  Posted: 10:33 AM, August 9th (Friday)

Yesterday was D-SD #1's birthday. A big one too - she turned 30.

I hesitated about texting her birthday greetings as I've not heard from her since Christmas (despite my reaching out) and her sister, D-SD #2, has completely ignored my contact for oh, about 4 years now. Given #1's NC I figured they'd joined forces in ignoring me.

Well, hell must have frozen over a wee bit as she actually acknowledged my message with a delightful message back.



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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, August 9th (Friday)

Hey there Biscuit, so glad you got a pleasant response!

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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.

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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, August 9th (Friday)

That's awesome, biscuit.

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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, August 9th (Friday)

You can call me NIK

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- Carlos Santana

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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, August 9th (Friday)

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, August 9th (Friday)

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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Many times after a divorce stepkids break contact with us stepparents. I hope this was an ice breaker for a future relationship.
Great news for you !

It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, August 9th (Friday)

happy news!!

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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Awesome, biscuit... just awesome.

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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, August 9th (Friday)


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Love that title!!!

Happy for you.

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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Biscuit it has been a long time since you came around here. Thanks for the good update.


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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Very happy for you, Ms. Biscuit

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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday)

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Well, I'm happy to call you a Biscuit, but you're gonna have to take care of the butter yourself....

I can't believe no one else beat me to that.

[This message edited by kernel at 9:16 PM, August 9th (Friday)]

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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Love it Biscuit! You know how much this warms my heart - the fear of not having my DSD in my life was one of my biggest fears after Dday. She may not be mine by blood, but I love that girl.

So I totally get it ajs! So happy for you. It may be sporadic, but appreciate the response nonetheless. ((Hugs))

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Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

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Posts: 4614 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Yee-haw! Here's some gravy!

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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, August 10th (Saturday)

Biscuit !!!!! I hope she continues to keep contact going both ways. P

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
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