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ajsmom
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Content  Posted: 10:33 AM, August 9th (Friday)

Yesterday was D-SD #1's birthday. A big one too - she turned 30.

I hesitated about texting her birthday greetings as I've not heard from her since Christmas (despite my reaching out) and her sister, D-SD #2, has completely ignored my contact for oh, about 4 years now. Given #1's NC I figured they'd joined forces in ignoring me.

Well, hell must have frozen over a wee bit as she actually acknowledged my message with a delightful message back.

Boomya!

AJ's MOM


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PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, August 9th (Friday)

Hey there Biscuit, so glad you got a pleasant response!


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even if you find your voice,
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cryingdaily
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, August 9th (Friday)

That's awesome, biscuit.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, August 9th (Friday)


You can call me NIK

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, August 9th (Friday)


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, August 9th (Friday)


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, August 9th (Friday)


Many times after a divorce stepkids break contact with us stepparents. I hope this was an ice breaker for a future relationship.
Great news for you !
Gma


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better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, August 9th (Friday)

happy news!!


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Awesome, biscuit... just awesome.


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Biscuit!!!!



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click4it
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Love that title!!!

Happy for you.


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Biscuit it has been a long time since you came around here. Thanks for the good update.


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Very happy for you, Ms. Biscuit


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday)


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Well, I'm happy to call you a Biscuit, but you're gonna have to take care of the butter yourself....

I can't believe no one else beat me to that.

[This message edited by kernel at 9:16 PM, August 9th (Friday)]


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persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Love it Biscuit! You know how much this warms my heart - the fear of not having my DSD in my life was one of my biggest fears after Dday. She may not be mine by blood, but I love that girl.

So I totally get it ajs! So happy for you. It may be sporadic, but appreciate the response nonetheless. ((Hugs))


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Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Yee-haw! Here's some gravy!


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, August 10th (Saturday)

Biscuit !!!!! I hope she continues to keep contact going both ways. P


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