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heathenchristian
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Member # 40060
Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, August 9th (Friday)

Not just a fricken glance, more like ogling her. Not attractive either. Same ethnicity as OW.
I'm sittin outside now. Don't want to be near him. Hopin he will go to sleep since he has to be @ wrk early am. My blood is boilin.

[This message edited by heathenchristian at 10:47 PM, August 10th (Saturday)]


If you don't want me at my worst, maybe I won't need you at my best.
DDAY 1 - not sure but it was July, Aug or Sept 2010 (supposed bj from hooker)
DDAY 2 - 7-22-2013 she was the made up hooker

Posts: 99 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: IL
blakesteele
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Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, August 9th (Friday)

(heathenchristian) Peace be with you. Angry, hostile night here too.

God be with us.


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 4041 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
rachelc
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Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, August 10th (Saturday)

this has happened to me as well. I don't understand, after an affair or two, why you would even LOOK at another woman in your wife's presence...
anyone?


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


Posts: 5345 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
Knowing
Member
Member # 37044
Default  Posted: 6:54 AM, August 10th (Saturday)

It is infuriating to see fWH ogle other women. It had never bothered me before, but I think that behaviour had ramped up in recent years.

I think it''s a symptom of their "disease". My fWH admits to objectifying women and that''s why he stares. I confronted him about it several months back and he recognized it as part of the slippery slope. He says he''s trying to break the habits and the thinking around that behaviour.


Me: BW, Him: fWH
Together 12 years
My EA (?) 2005-2011
His STA/PA: D-day: 19/09/12
TT: 08/12/12

We are in R.


Posts: 698 | Registered: Oct 2012
summerain
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Member # 37439
Default  Posted: 6:56 AM, August 10th (Saturday)

Well...

Mine imagines them naked... and can't help it. Co-workers... everyone. Happens about 10 times a day...

Beat that


OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

Posts: 818 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Australia
heathenchristian
Member
Member # 40060
Angry  Posted: 10:30 PM, August 10th (Saturday)

I'm sure he was looking at her and thinking of his OW.

It makes me think R is ridiculous.

Tonight was a better night.

Thanks for the support.


If you don't want me at my worst, maybe I won't need you at my best.
DDAY 1 - not sure but it was July, Aug or Sept 2010 (supposed bj from hooker)
DDAY 2 - 7-22-2013 she was the made up hooker

Posts: 99 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: IL
Topic Posts: 6