Originally, I posted on the General board but realized I should be here. So, hi out there from this newbie who needs some support, the occasional swift kick in the rear, and help keeping life on the straight and narrow. My BFF is tired of hearing my drama! She says I am too much work for her. Lol!
Hubs and I have reconciled after going through hell and have a fairly uneventful life at this point. We are almost 18 past D-Day and about a year into reconciliation.
However, we still have really bad days and things spiral out of control and into angry fights that are reminiscent of a time in our life I wish I could erase. It's these days that he often brings up the A or has a spiteful remark that cuts to the core. I also seem to be unable to handle my temper and he knows every button to push to send me over the edge.
I think we both still have many issues to deal with as a result of my A and both of our issues from being the BS's in our first marriages. Oh the irony I see in that sentence. Anyway... thank you for being my new support. "What doesn't kill me, makes me stronger"
Me: FWS/BW from 1st marriage
Him: BS, fabulous love of my life
Us: Reconciled with struggles