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lonelygirl30
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, August 10th (Saturday)

Hey people,
Well yet another night spent crying alone!
I feel o alone, never in my life have I felt this alone.
Im crying out for his love effection, and what he is giving me isn't enough I want him to want me like I want him, I want him to hold me tight like he doesn't ever want to loose me! but no... he's the cheater and I feel cheated and chasing him for effection! I jus want to scream I feel so unloved and unwanted!! its killing me, he use to be so passionate and loving now I jus get the to tired for anything! I cant cope.

Posts: 6 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: UK
Morhurt
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Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, August 10th (Saturday)

I'm pretty new here but I think you need to look up the 180 and implement it right away. I only did it a tiny bit but that was enough to snap my WH to attention. My understanding is that you would be doing it for you, to help you feel stronger and less like a doormat. Ever since I did it, I have felt stronger. Not less sad but less unloveable, less pathetic. Please try it.


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 960 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
heforgotme
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Member # 38391
Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, August 10th (Saturday)

We all feel you sweetie. Kisses and hugs from this corner and I am sure many others.


D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

Posts: 1083 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: FL
lonelygirl30
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Member # 40155
Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, August 10th (Saturday)

I have had a look at that!! I will defo try as hard as I can to do that I jus feel like ive no fight left In me!! im tired and exhausted!! Thanx ppl x

Posts: 6 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: UK
Morhurt
Member
Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, August 10th (Saturday)

Oh I know how you feel. It's all I can do to get out of bed most days. It's not depression, it's complete body fatigue. It's awful. I hate that I'm letting my kids down because of what my H chose to do. :(


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 960 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
Topic Posts: 5